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6/2/2007 6:24 pm |
I am a natural flirt when SINGLE... when married then thats different, I see no harm in it.. and dont think it shud get to a point of jealousy and all that crap
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6/2/2007 7:37 pm |
I love a good flirt!! Nothing wrong with it.....unless I was in a relationship..then I would only flirt with him. But I don't think I would flirt with someone if I know that it could hurt them.    PENELOPE "For I know the Plans I have for you, declares the Lord" Jer 29:11
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6/2/2007 8:30 pm |
You know that is interesting you brought that up. Different cultures make a difference with "the flirting issue," and what may be flirting in one is taboo in another. I'm an Irishman, so I am slagging a lot, but not many on here would have a clue to what I am saying...if you meet an Irishman, and he doesn't tease or kid you, then he probably doesn't like you- just part of the culture. I believe there are way too many people out there fixated with judging others, instead of living life as Christ would want you to live.
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6/2/2007 8:55 pm |
I am curious as to how you define "flirt". There's a difference between flirting and seriously "coming on" to a guy. I don't see myself as being the sort of woman who would lead a guy on, letting him think he stands a chance and then spitting him out. I dont even know how to explain flirting LOL its just something that comes naturally . I guess its just being friendly?? Maybe some other woman could explain it better!!  PENELOPE "For I know the Plans I have for you, declares the Lord" Jer 29:11
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6/2/2007 10:57 pm |
flirting is a way to let the other person know you find them atractive Life is an adventure.
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You know that is interesting you brought that up. Different cultures make a difference with "the flirting issue," and what may be flirting in one is taboo in another. I'm an Irishman, so I am slagging a lot, but not many on here would have a clue to what I am saying...if you meet an Irishman, and he doesn't tease or kid you, then he probably doesn't like you- just part of the culture. I believe there are way too many people out there fixated with judging others, instead of living life as Christ would want you to live. Well said... We shall know them by their FRUIT, no matter what they profess... 
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6/3/2007 5:53 pm |
Before I was a Christian, I was a big flirt. Now that I am a Christian, I feel convicted doing it. I mean I am friendly, and now and then tease people, but it is not the same as flirting. For some reason, I feel that flirting is a slight form of manipulating the situation, that might NOT be meant to be-IF you do NOT know the person??? AFTER I begin to know someone, then I feel it is ok.
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6/4/2007 12:09 am |
You know it's all in the intent, and content. To pay small sincere compliments, or indications of interest is fine. To deliberately lead on with no intention of a follow through, to touch inapporpreately, or to make vulgar statements is overboard. I'll spare giving any examples. Isaiah 66:2b; But to this one I will look, To him who is humble and contrite of spirit, and who trembles at My word.
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6/4/2007 7:41 pm |
I think I remember flirting, seems it was a very very long time ago!! Perhaps HolyMagi if you get it figured out you could hold class for those of us that need brushing up on it! We shall live thru the long procession of day's before us and thru the long evenings.....we shall patiently bare trials that fate imposes upon us. 
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Flirting is fine and fun--within boundaries. What are the boundaries? (1) You GOTTA be single (2) If you're a woman, don't act like either a drama queen, or like you're about to state how much the price will be. (3) If you're a man, lose the double entendres. (4) Both of you, if there are other people in the room, don't ignore them. The bottom line is: we are Christians now. We CAN flirt,laugh, and have a good time. Let's just be ladies and gentlemen about it. Old fashioned? No. A good example.
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