11/14/2008 12:35 pm
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The following article appeared in today's Yahoo News.
Pastor's Sex Challenge By MARY KEARL Sex -- a sacred connection between you, your partner and God? Reclaiming sex as a holy part of marriage and religion seems to be all the rage among evangelicals and other Christians across the country. The reason? To combat the evils sex has become associated with in the mainstream media -- among them: the high divorce rate, promiscuity and homosexuality. The question: Is bringing the oft-taboo topic of sex to light in a church also causing a bit of controversy in the process?
Most recently, the head of Fellowship Church, a Texas-based congregation with 20,000 members, is challenging his married, heterosexual churchgoers to have sex (with their spouses) every day for seven days straight, according to AP reports. Fellowship Church founder and senior Reverend Ed Young will deliver the sermon "Seven Days of Sex," on Sunday November 16, while sitting in bed in front of the Dallas-based chapter of his church. This is the second segment in a series entitled "Leaving Lust Vegas," which the church's Web site says is an answer to a sex-crazed society filled with "romance novels and chic-flicks [sic]" and adult Web sites and late-night TV, where "lust is lurking around every corner."
Church Leaders Call to Bring God Back into Bed
In an interview with CBS, Young describes people's reaction to his proposed week of sex: "We've had a few people go, 'Man, I wonder why you're doing this,' or, 'That's kind of odd, talking about making love in church.' But, again, I think the church has allowed the culture to hijack sex from the church, and it's time that we moved the bed back in church and put God back in the bed, and I think we are the real sex-perts because, after all, we're made in God's image and he's the one who wants us to do it his way."
Religious Sex Scandals
While the last few decades have seen a spate of religious-themed sex scandals, one religious leader who seems to have plunged further than most from his once-spotless pinnacle is Ted Haggard. The former evangelical pastor and former president of the National Evangelical Association was once an outspoken opponent of homosexuality -- until 2006, when a sex scandal involving a homosexual prostitute and a cash-for-sex relationship swirled about him. He was fired from his position as the head of 14,000-member New Life Church, according to the AP. Haggard never fully acknowledged nor denied the claims, but he said there was enough truthfulness to them to merit his firing. In November 2008, he announced that he was sexually abused as a child, and when the sex scandal leaked, that memory "started to rage in my mind and in my heart," reports the AP.
In Alexandra Pelosi's documentary "Friends of God," Haggard says, "You know all the surveys say that evangelicals have the best sex life of any other group," according to ABC News.
Isaiah 66:2b; But to this one I will look, To him who is humble and contrite of spirit, and who trembles at My word.
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2540 posts 11/14/2008 8:06 pm |
There is nothing wrong with a Pastor or Minister counseling people that are married about sex.But if this is done in a regular church setting where preteens and children are listening,I certainly don't think its a good idea?I do believe the subject of sex should be left up to the parents to discuss with small chidren and pre-teens.And personally,{and believe me I'm no prude}if I need or want to know something to expand on the Word of God when it comes to this subject,I would prefer discussing this privately or in a small group setting. Also just because one has sex for seven days straight doesn't preclude ones spouse from cheating on them.Usually there are other factors involved. Sometimes it does seem to be a taboo subject in some churches but I believe it would be better brought up,as I stated above,privately or in an "married couples group" at church.I'm sure the older teens and their youth ministers also discuss the sacred subject of marital sex and how God made it for good in their classes. Just my opinion.
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