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Ladies- What Do You Want? Due to some fairly recent events in my life & looking back & reviewing past relationships I ask you the Question- What Do You Want? You want a commitment? I have made commitments - In 1983 I was engaged to a woman I had dated for 5 years- She ran off with another man.This was a CHRISTIAN Woman who went to church every Sunday. The next one wanted Me & to continue to play the field. The next one wanted me to move in with her-then just wanted to be friends. The next one I did marry on Aug 7 ,1993 & 16 months later She wanted a seperation-Would not go to counciling, Refused to be reconciled & refused to Communicate. I waited 18 months for that woman, Filed for divorce because she told me " I don't love you, I don't hate you- your just here"" You should get a Mistress to meet your sexual needs"- This From a CHRISTIAN woman who is in Church 2ce a week- taught Sunday School. Then a few years later can't figure out why I Divorced Her. I have spent the last 8 years living like a Monk In my life-44 years-over 16,100 days on this earth I have had \bsexo?\b 53 times-32 of which sanctioned in Marrage. I have Spent over 2800 days Giving my time-,Taking women to Dinners,buying flowers, jewlry,cards,clothes So I ask- What Do You Women Want? |
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I don't know about the women you have seen but this one wants to feel the light of Jesus shine all over her and to feel His peace, security and safety in her life. And well, I am blessed because I do! Everything else is just icing! God rocks!
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Obviosly you're picking the wrong women. And there's not a generalization of what we all want. Not to be rude, but consummating only 32 times over a 16 month period of marriage seems a bit..umm..not exactly at the top of the frequency list. It seems to me that when you were newlywed, that shouldve been about the count for the first month. I dunno..my opinion anyway. I think you need to figure out what it is YOU want before trying to fit the mold of what you think a woman wants. 
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3/4/2007 12:45 pm |
I find when I was in my own will, things never seemed to go all that well. My own choices, were exactly that, mine and not HIS. With that said, I am embarking on the Father defining what He desires for me now. I know there will be resentment and maybe a little anger of the situation which will leave you thinking many unkind thoughts, mainly towards yourself and about your self worth. My suggestion would be don't ask US, ask GOD.... Submit in whole, seek His way everyday, the moment you wake, Praise and worship him (I did this also through gritted teeth, and it stuck as a catch phrase when talking of my testimony) and push through each day knowing He is guiding you through, he will restore to you...... I feel he is giving you this word to make your own " I will make the valley of Achor a door of hope. ." Hosea 2 v15
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3/4/2007 1:03 pm |
As one who has always picked the wrong men,I would say, let God pick the next one,as for the physical side,some woman are not aware of it as making love,to them, it is for whatever reason,a physical act to be endured,could be many reasons;child abuse,etc.or it could be,that part of them, hasn't been awakened,which takes time,love and patience.Every woman is unique and can be complex,what works for one,doesn't necessarily work for all.Hope you find what you are looking for,Godbless you, 
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3/4/2007 1:05 pm |
What do I want? It's not complicated for me. I just want a simple man full of integrity, honesty, faithfulness, morality, a love for Jesus Christ more than for me. When I say "simple," I mean that I just want a normal man, he doesn't need to be especially handsome or suave to impress and attract me. I tend to be attracted to misunderstood loners.
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Well I too picked the wrong men...This time I am going to involve God in it.AS for this woman I want a man that puts God totally first. and me second above erything else.....these women must not know the same God I know.......It takes two...I wasn't behind closed doors with either of you....... You are young and one thing for sure there are women out there..but my advice to you is put God first now..give Him your all and all things will come to His faithful.We are all human and have human desires......let God find the right woman for you.
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Ladies- Thank You for your responces-There are a few facts that I need to clarify-1. I Have asked God for HIS WILL For 27 YEARS! He can speak the word only & create the entire universe in 6 days Yet I ask for 1 Just 1 good woman to love honor, cherish & be loved ,honored & cherished by For us to walk with & talk to God, & I am a man who Hates Being LATE! I know My attitude is wrong but in my eyes I am 22 years behind schedule.Interpretation is correct as to frequency most men my age have been married several years & had \bsexo?\b a lot more in 1 year than I have in my life & it does NOT please me.
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3/12/2007 2:55 pm |
One simple phrase..........Die to flesh....thats flesh taking. And please brother that is not a judgement, for i find it difficult even on a good day.
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Sister I'd love to die to the flesh- The Problem is this flesh was crucifyied with Christ 2007 years ago- & for something that is supposed to be dead for a minimum of the last 27 years- its alive & well. Now- I know Only one person in this universe that can speak the word only & get Instant results- It sure is not me otherwise the old nature would have been shot! not crucified. If you or anyone else does not like my attitude- GOOD! that makes 2 of us & it is written- "If ANY 2 of you on earth shall agree as touching anything they shall ask it shall be done for them." I want ALL SIN Iniquity, unrightousness, unbelief DESTROYED,EXTERMINATED,OBLITERATED,Removed by its roots here- NOW!- once & for all- not just positionally but experienceally.27 years of constant trial & tribulation has ERODED-not streangthened my patience & has done more dammage than good. I am a man who likes to go from point a to point b in the shortest amount of time possible. Jesus spoak the word only & killed a fig tree in 24 hours -He cannot speak the word only & in the same amount of time remove Sin from me by its roots once & for all? I have asked Him to for Over 10 years. I have asked for the faith
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3/13/2007 12:42 pm |
It wasn't a personal attack sorry if it seemed like that
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No Offence taken Sister I am Just Venting my Frustrations
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3/15/2007 7:01 am |
Well we all have our good days and our not so good....airing on the positive side in times of trial is what i aspire to....Good luck in this journey...
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Like Job I have been going thru the Not so good days- I replayed the situation over in my mind- carefully taking into consideration every action & word spoken & written & realized what had happened- it is not good luck I need but Gods guidance & to hear his voice with my physical not just spiritual ears.
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