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SisterSaysSo 112F
417 posts
6/13/2006 7:03 pm

Last Read:
8/7/2006 8:37 pm

A gentle reminder

SisterSaysSo
When Jesus said, "Do not judge, and you will not be judged," was He implying that we should regard everyone's viewpoint equally?

Based on Jesus' own actions, we can be sure He didn't mean we should ignore and tolerate evil. Jesus wasn't passively tolerant toward people who were doing evil things and promoting evil values. He often made judgments regarding their actions and confronted them ( Matthew 21:13; 23:13-36 ; John 60-71; 8:39-47 ).

Jesus taught in the tradition of the Old Testament prophets who consistently confronted evil -- even at the risk of their lives ( 2 Samuel 12:1-12 ; 1 Kings 18:18 ). Like the prophets, Jesus illustrated that love is sometimes expressed through confrontation. If we love our neighbors as ourselves, we must at times be as willing to compassionately confront evil and self-destructiveness in their character as we are in our own. A father who gives his anything they want spoils them. Likewise, our heavenly Father would ruin us if He set no limits for us and indulged our every whim. Love for our neighbor involves the same principle. There are occasions when God requires us to confront serious error and sin.

When we confront sin in the right spirit, we are acting in love, not judging in the sense of Jesus' words in this verse. When motivated by love, we won't be self-righteous and feel that we are better in the eyes of God.
SisterSaysSo
BeastMster, sit up strait and listen! This is important!

A loving heart is humble, knowing that before a holy God all people are equal ( Romans 3:9,23 ; Galatians 3:22 ; 1 John 1:8 ).

Judging, as Jesus condemned it in these verses, is unforgiving condemnation -- a hypercritical, self-righteous, vindictive spirit that continually seeks to uncover the faults of others while overlooking one's own sins.2

Jesus' warning against this kind of judging emphasizes that any measure we use to judge other people will be used against us. He said, "For with the same measure that you use, it will be measured back to you" ( Luke 6:38 ). Jesus teachings elsewhere ( Matthew 6:14-15; 18:23-35 ) made it clear that self-righteous, unforgiving people will not be forgiven by God.
Their rigid, unforgiving hearts demonstrate that they aren't the of God ( 1 John 3:14-15 ). Their refusal to forgive others demonstrates that they have never experienced the purifying power of the Holy Spirit in their own life.
SisterSaysSo
Did you hear that? YOU WILL NOT BE FORGIVEN! YOU WILL GO TO HELL! WISE UP!

Personal experience illustrates the truth of Jesus' words. When we judge other people self-righteously and vindictively, they will respond to us in the same way. In contrast, if we are patient and compassionate, the people in our lives tend to overlook our minor failures and flaws.

More subtle, but no less damaging, is the internal effect of an unforgiving, judgmental spirit. Since we naturally project our own attitude upon others, judgmental people usually assume that other people are as vindictive and judgmental as they. This puts them under the crushing pressure of living up to their own harsh, unforgiving expectations.

Jesus' words don't require us to be passive in the face of evil. They require us to confront it in the spirit of compassion, humility, and love.

SisterSaysSo
So remember, of you don't follow the example Jesus set for us........

YOUR ALL GOING TO HELL !!!!!!


carolinehampton
(caroline hampton)
59F
8849 posts
6/13/2006 9:32 pm

thankyou for the GENTLE reminder...really needed that


sensibledreamer
(Cath P)
60F

6/13/2006 10:59 pm

Sister, Holy Cannolli.. first kindness and now gentleness..

If you ask me its hard to do though (which may be why its not so popular ! but if you like a challenge... !?).. It takes a bit of practice and doesnt allways work as you expect it in the short term either, and it takes quite a bit of skill to do it and hold your place so to speak..

Anyway.. just my experience of it.

Love Cath


Rebekka 77F

6/14/2006 5:03 am

Thank you sister for this gentle reminder. Be blessed as you are a blessing.

Elizabeth


reallysaved
(Jean Sanders)
65F

6/14/2006 5:20 am

I think you said it perfectly! Beastmster, are you listening?


SisterSaysSo 112F

6/14/2006 9:31 pm

    Quoting carolinehampton:
    thankyou for the GENTLE reminder...really needed that
You are my special one, child! I have no worries about you.


SisterSaysSo 112F

6/14/2006 9:35 pm

    Quoting  :

Thank you so much Tommy. Yes, things have been very hectic at the orphanage and that doesn't leave me much leisure time. But it's a labor of love you know, and I wouldn't have it any other way. God bless you my son.


SisterSaysSo 112F

6/14/2006 9:36 pm

    Quoting  :

Oh my dear! What a clever play on words! Thank you for stopping by young lady. God bless you.


SisterSaysSo 112F

6/14/2006 9:42 pm

    Quoting sensibledreamer:
    Sister, Holy Cannolli.. first kindness and now gentleness..

    If you ask me its hard to do though (which may be why its not so popular ! but if you like a challenge... !?).. It takes a bit of practice and doesnt allways work as you expect it in the short term either, and it takes quite a bit of skill to do it and hold your place so to speak..

    Anyway.. just my experience of it.

    Love Cath
Well young lady, I have read many of your comments and I think you have a pretty good handle on how to deal with jackasses in a kind and loving way. Keep up the the good works!


SisterSaysSo 112F

6/14/2006 9:44 pm

    Quoting Rebekka:
    Thank you sister for this gentle reminder. Be blessed as you are a blessing.
Well thank so much sweetheart! You are one of God's little angels here on earth! Stay blessed.


SisterSaysSo 112F

6/14/2006 9:47 pm

    Quoting reallysaved:
    I think you said it perfectly! Beastmster, are you listening?
I know I said it perfectly as I have been at this for many years. Thank you for the comment and thank you for talking to your friend Dennis. He really is a good boy you know, just a little rough around the edges. Be blessed my sweet sister.


SisterSaysSo 112F

6/14/2006 9:50 pm

    Quoting  :

BeastMster? You might want to talk to Dennis and he can fill you in. Jean can give you his phone number. Nice young, but a wild hothead like that vile one ProdicalSon. Be blessed young man.


SisterSaysSo 112F

6/14/2006 9:52 pm

    Quoting  :

Rodney, I think you are wrong in your assumption here. Be blessed my child.


MisterSaySo
(X X)
73M

6/15/2006 3:40 pm

+ wiggles eyebrows at sistersaysso +


SisterSaysSo 112F

6/15/2006 7:13 pm

    Quoting MisterSaySo:
    + wiggles eyebrows at sistersaysso +
+looking at the ground, adjusting my habit+


olchineseproverb
(Hu chi )
94M

6/16/2006 12:07 pm

Women and men of cloth should not conduct themselves in this manner.


standingoo2 66F

6/17/2006 7:41 pm

I wonder than How should men and woman of the cloth conduct themselves?

goo


SisterSaysSo 112F

6/20/2006 1:20 am

    Quoting olchineseproverb:
    Women and men of cloth should not conduct themselves in this manner.
And in what manner do you suggest we conduct outselves?


SisterSaysSo 112F

6/20/2006 1:21 am

    Quoting  :

Don't encourage him dear.


SisterSaysSo 112F

6/20/2006 1:22 am

    Quoting standingoo2:
    I wonder than How should men and woman of the cloth conduct themselves?

    goo
That is for us to know and you to hopefully never find out!


SisterSaysSo 112F

6/20/2006 1:23 am

    Quoting  :

I won't sat dear! He does make me quiver though!


RailBaron2
(Jim Saylor)
61M
104 posts
6/22/2006 9:03 pm

Hello SisterSaysSo I have a question maybe you can answer-
Someone offends me- I go to them tell them thier fault- they do not listen & a couple years latter do the same thing over again this time I again confront them & others confront them as witnesses,again it goes in one ear & out the other they do it a third time & we go public they still don't get it & are very self rightous & continue on thier destructive course the word says treat them like a Publican & heathen does that mean to seperate yourself from them & do all in your power to stop thier continued destruction of some thing valuable to others or just let them do as they please & forgive them anyway & allow God to bring His Judgement upon them? Thank you for your time & consideration
sincerly, Jim


SisterSaysSo 112F

6/24/2006 5:48 am

    Quoting RailBaron2:
    Hello SisterSaysSo I have a question maybe you can answer-
    Someone offends me- I go to them tell them thier fault- they do not listen & a couple years latter do the same thing over again this time I again confront them & others confront them as witnesses,again it goes in one ear & out the other they do it a third time & we go public they still don't get it & are very self rightous & continue on thier destructive course the word says treat them like a Publican & heathen does that mean to seperate yourself from them & do all in your power to stop thier continued destruction of some thing valuable to others or just let them do as they please & forgive them anyway & allow God to bring His Judgement upon them? Thank you for your time & consideration
    sincerly, Jim
Well Mark 6:11 tells us; "...if any place will not welcome you or listen to you, shake the dust off your feet when you leave, as a testimony against them."

This is easier said than done when it comes to someone who is dear to you though. I would suggest to follow what is in your heart. If you feel compelled not to give up on this person then by all means keep trying. However, do not let yourself be burdened with guilt if you are not successful. I know this isn't much help to you and my heart grieves along with your's.

You are a wonderful man to care for someone so deeply. Be blessed my child.


RailBaron2
(Jim Saylor)
61M
104 posts
6/24/2006 6:41 pm

Thank You Sister , I had to do as you said 10 years ago & now I must do the same to a Group of people where I am at the museum I am leaving That would not know or care what the words Restoration & Preservation ment if it came up & bit them. God Bless You, Jim


Mom4Jesus 56F

6/25/2006 1:26 am

Thank you for the reminders, Sister.

Mom4Jesus


SisterSaysSo 112F

6/25/2006 11:25 pm

    Quoting Mom4Jesus:
    Thank you for the reminders, Sister.

    Mom4Jesus
Your welcome sweetheart. Hope school is going well for you.