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No More Dogs (from a women’s point of view).  

9/8/2007 12:40 pm
 We all desire to be desired. Any good-looking man or women will be desired by the opposite sex. A woman doesn’t even have to be good-looking to be desired by dogs. Just because a guy desires you doesn’t mean you are desirable it just means he has a lust problem. A hungry person will eat things they don’t like just because they are hungry, same with a dog. A man that will have sex with a woman and not care what she looks like, he just needs a place to do his thing is a dog. When a male dog is around a female dog in heat, the male is in another world. You can give commands, you can smack him and he doesn’t respond. All he does is keep his eyes on the female, panting until he is able to mount and so his thing. This is because they are animals.

Unfortunately there are men who act the same way they are out of control. The sadist thing about that statement is some of these men are Christian men who go to church on a regular basis, they are ushers, choir members etc…

When I first became single after 30 years of marriage, I learned fast that when a man pays attention to you or communicates that you are desirable, in most of those cases, only desirable for sex. Is that really the way we Christian women want to be desired? Not this one. I have decided that I no longer just desire to be desired. I want only to be desired by my Boaz whoever he may be. Listen, we need to say enough with the dogs… I am a human woman, NO MORE DOGS!

I am now more conscious of my beauty in Christ, adorning the hidden man of the heart, rather than my outer beauty. If a man can’t desire me because I am godly then I don’t want anything to do with him. If he can’t get past my outer beauty and get excited about my destiny then he is not for me.

Ladies, see yourself as the beauty you are… let the dogs pant and lust if they must but you keep walking as the beautiful women, whole and pure, that you are and your Boaz will be waiting just around the corner. Keep yourself for him. Those of you who desire to remarry live as you are married keeping yourself for your mate who longs for you as much as you do him.

THINK ABOUT IT!!
americandreamer

9/8/2007 2:16 pm

 I personally would love to see women find their voice, not cave into baiting men by feigned coquettishness, and exercise a little more independence. This is one reason why I don't date...I can't deal with the sex games. My husband who is no longer here was a good man, so apparently there are good ones out there. Tread lightly though...I sure do! God bless you.


- Pat -

apostle2day

9/8/2007 3:30 pm

 There are lots of women who are dogs too, but they don't have the high testosterone levels to fight like men do, but the constant modern Hollywood programming gets a person worked up, and particularly when you are younger, if you pay much attention to it at all.

Your personal stance is a good one, however, and the true Christian way. You are to be commended for that !

Christ said people who even think about such things, are imperfect too, so we're all in the same boat according to Christ, just to differing degrees of imperfection, which matters not to God. He has to have perfection, so we're all bound by the grace of God, thru Christ.

Sounds like you're really wound up today, but Christ said in essence, be careful about how you judge others, or it could wind up happening to you too ! Swaggart and Baker and the gay preacher out of Denver could definitely back that one up, along with several other well-known figures down thru time, along with myriads of lesser everyday judgers, who unkowingly fall victim to the same law of God.....judge not, lest ye be not judged !

thanks, & best wishes....to us all ! (to help us keep from judging others too harshly)

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