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Is it me or what? It seems like a lot of the people on this site need to be a little less serious. I think most of us have been hurt in a divorce or some kind of a loss in a relationship da... otherwise we wouldn't be here. I'm not trying to make light of any ones troubles, but we serve a great God and I think that we can have a little(LOT) of fun serving him. Life is better with God than without! I have been on both sides of this fence and this last year would have been impossible if it weren't for my faith in God and the strength that my brothers and sisters in Christ gave me. I still fill the pain of my divorce, but I will not allow this pain to take my smile away  I have not been on this site for very long, so maybe I could be wrong, I do understand that there are scammers and players out there that we need to be careful of, but I say lets have some fun. Like the name of the site says BigChurch we're all a part Christ's church so lets enjoy each other like brothers and sisters should.Thanks P.S. Hope I didn't offend any one, but if I did forgive me I am your bother. And Christ said you have too, so there!!!  Life is too short so Lighten Up a bit... |
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1/13/2006 7:11 pm |
Yes, I agree, to be quite honest, it has been somewhat of a bummer coming here lately. I seem to get depressed alot lately, coming here. I am thinking I need to just stay away for a while or something. In another group I am involved in, there is only one place for disagreements, disagreements and arguments are not allowed anywhere else, only on one section, there are like 8 or nine other sections...all arguments are moved to the one place. People seem to get a long very well there. 
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1/13/2006 7:17 pm |
Greetings Yendor 2! Welcome to Big Church Blog land! No offense to me. My sentiments exactly! As brothers & sisters in Christ we should mourn, cry, AND Laugh with the rest of the body. I have been in mourning and crying enough this past year so I too, am ready to start laughing and having fun now. Our Lord came that we might have life & have it more abundantly and I am ready for Abundant! I am not a player or a scammer and I have to say, I have only received about 3 contacts that were serious about being a friend. Most just do not respond at all? Hmmmnnnn.. Wonder what that means... If you have a clue, let me in on it too OK? Fun & Blessings to you! In Him, Judith
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1/13/2006 7:34 pm |
Laurie it isnt about getting along. We have infiltraters here that are saying one thing in their blogs and contacting people privately and deceiving them in their cults. You have never seen me take up a battle on here until this came out. It is one thing to have differences but it is another when it is a cult. We are standing up and exposing deception that is very very dangerous. My people are destroyed for their lack of knowledge. I speak unconditional love and acceptance "available" from God and I speak intimacy with God. However when people are preying on others and trying to seduce them into blasphemies well its a battle that needs to be fought is all. Brother I just want to encourage you. God is good. He is all loving and caring..but he is not mocked and it is a mockery what is being spoken by some people here in the Universal movement. What is the Universalism? Important read for Christians Check out this information. It is what Neets and Scofield are pushing as truth.
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1/13/2006 7:37 pm |
Amen Brother!! God has a great sense of humor...look at us tell Him how we'd like things! I havn't been on BC for a great while, long enough to see there are some really joyful people who know their way around the site, and some others that just want to preach and make sure others "get it right". I visited the Chat Rooms for a little bit, and aside from it going WAY to fast, if you don't know people, that's not the place to try to get know them. My advice is hang out for a litte while, read some blogs, write to a few people, but don't take stock in them all keeping in contact with you. It may be a good opportunity to get some encouragers in your corner to help with the healing. Remember that God knows the plan. He has plans for you to prosper, whether you do it here on BC or make this a stepping stone. I think you are the kind of person who laughs regularly and that is a great gift. Big Blessings Brother....Brother in Christ and Brother in a similar TUNDRA than mine! Terri <+>< (HzKid)
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1/13/2006 8:34 pm |
yender, I agree with you that we are all Gods children at least we say we are, but some come in with a spirit to make trouble for those they dont like and to gain controll. It would be Gods house if some didnt decide to personally email the new people who they decide to include in their circle and gossip about the rest that they dont like. That is a skilled spirit brought in from the world God is not in it and enough people wont stand on the word of God or use discernmennt and say they dont want to have nothing to do with those who seperate Gods children. The bible says to mark those who cause division among you. So I warn you in front of the whole big church members that if you or any other new member come in with this attitude of unity and love I caution you against those who will email you to in the flesh win your sympothy. If I see your attitude change towards some for no reason then I will know that they have gotten to you too. Peace and blessings to you and glory to God in Jesus name.
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1/13/2006 9:36 pm |
no offense taken. i agree...initally i had hope to find there here too... and now i've just surrendered and i find that i post things to try to even the tide... with the occasional humour thrown in... ahhhhhh where is that place to just relax and enjoy each other???  heaven i guess  thanks for the post...
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 1/13/2006 9:44 pm |
Thanks for the positive and feedback. About what bella5099 wrote b"Most just do not respond at all? Hmmmnnnn.. Wonder what that means... If you have a clue, let me in on it too OK?"/b I wonder if their looking for the "right" match and not considering that most people just want to be friends! I'm sure most everyone is cautious, and they should be, but after a couple of e-mails you can tell if they’re real or not (I think!) I have also notice that a lot of people don't put their picture on their profiles. I haven’t yet either, do you think it matters because so many others don't. Life is too short so Lighten Up a bit...
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1/14/2006 1:35 am |
hi vendor I am newish to bc 4wks or so...yeah a bit "sad" at way things r a bit ...so haven't had heart to post another blog yet but will do do soon...u r right always have a smile inspite of...looking to Jesus instead GB Man can make many plans...BUT it is the Lord who will direct his paths....
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1/14/2006 10:26 am |
Welcome to blogland.
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1/14/2006 1:18 pm |
sorry I didnt mean to come off negative, but I feel that you and I are already aquainted as we are both children of the Lord(smile) and with all that is going on in here. Most come in this way but soon there becomes a division and even the new people begin to take sides. The Lord just showed me where it was coming from and why it was. So I wanted to caution you and warn you aand any new person against it. So forgive me if I came on a bit strong, I hope I havent offended you as well. God bless you and I look forward to hearing from you again. peace and love in Jesus name, allamazed2.
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1/15/2006 8:42 pm |
Thank you for your reply to my blog. You mentioned that you did not agree with it. Let's discuss your ideas.
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1/16/2006 10:20 pm |
Rod, Welcome to the world of BC Blogging. You're sure to find quite a mix here, yet I think in some ways there is a good balance. Happy Blogging! Sue
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1/17/2006 4:22 pm |
Well said. I do think that most are just looking for "Ms. Right" and I know I probably don't quite measure up to what they are looking for. Oh well, foiled again. Honestly though, I really think you have to be friends first and take it slow because if you move too fast into a serious relationship you might just jump from the frying pan in to the fire! I just want to have fun for awhile! Everyday life has enough blows all by itself without me adding more to it by getting down on all the stuff that may be wrong. When I start losing my Joy, I have to check my attitude about stuff & people. When I do that it always brings me back in line. I am serious about living for God and he definately is first in my life however, Proverbs says laughter doeth good like a medicine and I say take a dose often! Joy is healing and if you are struggling with lonliness and depression as many single's often do, then take alot of doses and call Jesus right away! He is a cure for what ever is wrong with you. You can call me too but I am not always available as he is. OOPS guess you would have to send me an email on BC I am not in the book anymore. God's best to you all and here's to celebration of Life! In Him. Judith (Bella5099)
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1/17/2006 7:08 pm |
Judith, That is what I call some "God Spoke" stuff!!!!..... Thanks Life is too short so Lighten Up a bit...
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1/30/2006 3:56 pm |
Hi Rod. thanks for the wink, but I can't contact you because I don't have a premium membership. thanks any way.
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2/1/2006 7:34 pm |
"P.S. Hope I didn't offend any one, but if I did forgive me I am your bother. And Christ said you have too, so there!!! " exactly! *grin*
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3/11/2006 8:38 pm |
The wounds of a friend are better than the kisses of an enemy  Love does not rejoice in evil.... It is good to be reminded that for a child of God, everything he does should be for the glory of God. Seek His kingdom and His righteousness and all these things will be given to you as well. Delight in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart. He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all—how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things?God bless you, brother.... He'll never leave you nor forsake you!!!
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7/20/2008 2:09 pm |
hello , how are you doing over there ? I am with much hope that you are doing good over there as i am also doing over here..by the way i thank you very much for your lovely letter to me and i am really very happy and excited with it and i really appreciate it as well..by the way i would love to introduce my self to you.. By the way Philipa is my name and i am a young girl of 28 years of age..half American and half Ghanaian born in USA and was brought to Ghana since when i was young and still staying in Ghana..I was once working as a teacher in a children private school but have stopped due to poor salary and i am now a second year student at the university of Ghana studying catering.I just joined on here and i am on here seriously searching for a serious single man for a serious long lasting relationship which will surely develop well and lead to marriage and family in the near future..I am single never been married with no any kids.I am looking for a serious single man who is ready to accept me his future wife and also settle down with me and spend the rest of his life with me as well and also for us to create a wonderful family in the near future.i am a decent,loving,caring,understanding,open minded,easy going,broad minded,open hearted,loyal.faithful,honest,truthful,trustworthy,God fearing,hard working ,young,attractive,romantic,serious single girl and I am looking for a decent,loving,caring,understanding,open minded,easy going,broad minded,open hearted,loyal.faithful,honest,truthful,trustworthy,God fearing,hard working,reliable man who is also looking for a serious single woman.I enjoy swimming,cooking,traveling,lighting candles,traveling,watching of interesting movies and also reading of interesting books as well.I dont have my mum alive and also dont know my dad.My dad divorced my mum since when i was young and that let my mum brought me to Ghana her country and as a result of that i dont know my dad.I also lost my mum when i was between the ages of 7 to 8 and my Uncle took very good care of me till date so i consider him as my dad and mum.That is a little bit about me..you also try and write to me back soon and tell me more about you.i am ending here with much hope to hear from you soon..you take very good care of your self for me and also hope to hear from you soon if you are interested on me...bye for now and have a nice day.. Yours sincerely Philipa
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