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Bite Your Tongue, Rather Than . . .  

imavessel
9/8/2006 3:55 am

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"The power of life and death is in the tongue."

The tongue, an exceedingly small member, sure can cause much destruction. Is this not true?

Think about it, we've probably all had times when someone somewhere has said something, called us something--- and even if we have had forgiveness, . . . that "thing" stuck with us for long periods of time. Maybe for some, they've never been able to get those words out of their heads.

It's fairly easy to see when someone is blatently using their tongue as a weapon, so we don't even really need to speak about that.

But what I caution us all to think about is us, being Christian and using the Word---the Word of God---- or directing it to somebody.

You all know that satan used the Word right? In fact, I would venture to say- he knows it better than anyone of us. *Tried to use it against Jesus, . . . didn't work.

Sometimes, though I think when he uses it toward us, ----- or worse off, we open doors that allow him to use us to use it - - - well it's just not a good thing. & People are hurt by it.

We need to be Holy Spirit led, period.

Not off on our own cause, not trying to "win the world" or worse yet "correct the world" through our own power and authority. *We have none except that which comes through the Him that is supposed to be in us.

I heard something through someone here about an already depressed person who was also here for a time.

Apparently was badgered about whatever it is that they were writing. This person was apparently truly in a very weak state. I can only guess felt no hope at all.

That person is no longer with us. Not with BC, not in this world-

I have no idea if the badgering had anything to do with it. -But I can remember enough of my depression to know- being poked repeatedly for what I either had a different view of or that I just did not understand would have probably been the LAST THING I needed.

I just lift up that person's family and friends right now. I lift up those that knew this person on BC. & Lord, I also ask that You touch each one of us and let us each be led to say whatever we say as we try to walk with you. In the Name of Jesus, Amen-

We will be known to be His by our fruit and our love for each other . . . .
Rebekka

9/8/2006 4:38 am

You know I was married to a man for almost 30 years who abused me. First it was physical, then later turned to mental and verbal. And I tell you right now, I would rather have had the physical, the physical wounds/bruises heal in time but the wounds from the tongue, without Jesus never heal. The words spoke to you determine how you see you. And that is so sad! Our worth does not come from man but from God. How God sees us! He sees us as worthy, as beautiful, as somebody special. We are the apple of His eye. He dotes on us! In Him we are somebody and nobody can take that away from us unless we give them permission. Let's us not ever let anyone do that to us again. I love you Mya! You are somebody and you are loved!

Elizabeth

searchinglife
602 posts 

9/8/2006 6:05 am

I second everything Rebekka said!

I just LOVE my Abba Daddy!

Blessing to you!

Rebecca

PS...Mya, could you share who that person was? There's been so many of BC depressed lately, would be nice to know. Just hope I wasn't one of the ones that made things worse for that individual. God rest their soul.

CultivateLife
136 posts 

9/8/2006 6:42 am

This is a very, very sad post. I wonder what keeps some from loving their fellow man, especially a fellow brother. It seems to me that this is about strong- holds and fear. I don't know but I'm sorry for the family of this person and will pray for the tender touch of God to comfort them.

meow33744
23281 posts

9/8/2006 9:05 am

As need, so also will I pray.



For me to live is Christ and to die is gain.

Depression / Passion

Meow ?


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redbird1122
1581 posts 

9/8/2006 11:52 am

My precious, precious, sister, my heart is bleeding right now as tears stream down my face. I have witnessed this type of thing here too many times already. One, who in a time of weakness and despair who is being pummelled by a brother or sister instead of being wrapped in the arms of love and understanding and lifted up. I, too have been in that same position and have tried to take my own life, but God has prevented me from being successful. He has His own purposes. It is at times like this that I pray, that God, in His gracious mercy will forgive this child and welcome them home. We must do all we can to prevent this from ever happening again on this site. I love you, dear, dear sister and I appreciate all that you are and all that you do for our Lord and Master.

Your sister in Christ's love,
Cecilia

Ephesians 6:13 . . .and having done all, to stand

duncan54
(greg m)

9/8/2006 1:23 pm

How easy I forget this very important truth! I think I need a bigger bridle and bit! Hee! Haw! thats what I sound like when I speak in the flesh! Good post young lady! Duncan.

Robyn2006

9/8/2006 1:37 pm

I have heard the same thing and it just turns my stomach. I stand with each of you in prayer for this persons family and for this message to be heard loud and clear throughout BC and the world. Many are hurting, we are HIS children...its our job to be HIS hands and feet in this world, HE would never have done this. This is so sad.

spiritfilled052
12610 posts 

9/8/2006 3:58 pm

I've been listening to "Healing Rain" written and sung by Michael W. Smith a lot lately and it's my prayer that all of BC will experience God's Healing Rain. Here are the words:

Healing rain is coming down
It's coming nearer to this old town
Rich and poor, weak and strong
It's bringing mercy it won't be long

Healing rain is coming down
It's coming closer to the lost and found
Tears of joy and tears of shame
Are washed forever in Jesus' Name

Healing rain it comes with fire
So let it fall and take us higher
Healing rain, I'm not afraid
To be washed in Heaven's rain

Lift your heads, let us return
To the mercy seat where time began
And in your eyes I see the pain
Come soak this dry heart with healing rain

And only You, the Son of man
Can take a leper and make him stand
So lift your hands, they can be held
By someone greater, the Great I Am

Healing rain is falling down
Healing rain is falling down
I'm not afraid I'm not afraid

How can we NOT praise Him - Marilyn

Indescribeable
8009 posts

9/9/2006 1:31 am

...and his will be done, in Jesus name Amen. Wonderful post Mya. Blessings to everyone, tonight.

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