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gavinLS 69M
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3/23/2015 9:45 pm

Next year, or if you celebrate Sweetest Day in your region, here's what you need to do. (Trust an old guy on this one. Ur friends will think u'r nuts. Just be in a good mood, laughing and "friendly flirting" with all the ladies. Old young, big small, ..ALL of them. Laugh with your buddies, but don't let them talk u out of it.)

This works especially well if you frequent a place where most ppl know you and u may have an interest in any of the ladies there.

Buy long stemmed roses, enough for you to give one to each of all the ladies you anticipate seeing that day, AND about 1/4 to 1/3 extra for the GUYS who will beg u to let them have one for their girlfriends/wives. Have each one of the roses INDIVIDUALLY WRAPPED, but carry them in a bundle.

Now, there are two ways to proceed. You can just show up carrying the whole bundle, and happily passing one out to each lady you see, and wishing them a Happy Sweetest/Valentine's Day. (Be careful approaching couples. Approach the guy and offer him a flower to give to his girlfriend. Smile at both of them and wish them BOTH a Happy "whatever".

My personal favorite method was to arrive early, find a place to sit and place the bundle where everyone will see it near you, with a note (U can get them at the florist when u buy the flowers) with the words: "To the ladies of ".....................", You are all my Sweetest" or "Favorite Valentine!"

DON'T pay extra attention to ANY of the ladies who are pleased with you! (They ALL will be).

You are NOT trying to impress any particular lady! You are being sweet, and friendly to ALL of them!

When you leave, don't expect to be remembered. (But you WILL be.)

And don't expect to have sparked an interest in any of the ladies. (But you WILL.)

Eventually, a few of them will warm up to you. Enjoy a friendly conversation! Laugh, and flirt MILDLY in a humorous and complimentary fashion.

Then you have to decide which one you'd like to invite for coffee.

I'll leave the rest up to you. Just don't fall in love too fast, and especially don't declare it if you do!

Good luck and GBU,

Gavin