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Urban_Hermit 70M
318 posts
3/1/2015 2:29 am

All the 'Flirts' I have are between the ages of 30 to 34. The hotlists, one 55 year old, one 50 year old, one 38 year old, then the rest 34 down to 27 years old. Most are around 31 years old. And my Headline? "Under 55 years of age not considered!" I tell them in my profile if you are my daugther's age and try to contact me I'll just think you're stupid, and I also want local. Then I get messages saying they loved my profile and they think I'm meant for them, age and distance doesnt matter. Even after me also saying that they are not getting my kid's inheritance and I'm not a stepping stone into this country. Sigh........ and it's the same on the SFF site. I've now got an automatic response to all messages that's the same as my heading. Even then they still will reply with the same messsage 4 or 5 times. My conclusion? Only the ones you chat with over a long period of time can you 'begin' to trust.

Judgement Day will be interesting.


Chris4Christ 59M
118 posts
3/5/2015 8:00 pm

Ya, I get at least two 30-something "women" from some far away country per week that either hotlist me or message me and tell me of the marriage desires.
I don't believe that this site allows this, I actually believe that this site actively employs people to create bogus profiles with attractive pictures in an attempt to lure free members into ponying up some greenbacks for a paid membership so they can contact them.
It's pretty pathetic.

You're not likely going to find true love from behind a computer monitor.
There's not one person (me included) that could EVER look God in the eye and proclaim that they didn't outright lie or at the very least embellish something while describing themselves online.
So why would it be any different on a website that caters to members proclaiming to have a relationship with God?

spanker's situation - congrats, spanker! - although wonderful, is the exception not the norm.

With the exception of a few flesh and blood members who pop in here once in a while, this site died long ago.

Unless you're either immobilized or housebound, get out into the world doing the things you enjoy. You've got a better chance of finding a potential love interest who might even share the same likes / dislikes that you do.

Pray to God for what you want, and don't get discouraged or bitter if He says "no" or "wait".