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9/10/2009 3:25 am
People Choices - by my pastor, Mark Evans, New Life Church, Trumbull, CT

I posted this in my blog today because I think that he wrote this with ME in mind! LOL! (Probably NOT, but that's the thought I had as I read this today). See if it speaks to you too.

When God wants to bless you, He puts a person in your life....When Satan wants to destroy you, he puts a person in your life.

Today's Word

Can two walk together, except they be agreed? ~Amos 3:3

Today's Thought

You can't partner successfully with somebody who doesn't share your goals. When you feel passionately about something, but the other person feels complacent, it's like you're dancing the Macarena with somebody who only wants to Waltz. You picked the wrong dance partner!

Never walk anywhere with anyone who doesn't share your passion for what you're doing together. Some issues can be corrected through teaching and leadership - but you can't teach somebody to care! And if they don't care, they'll affect your environment, ruin your productivity and break your rhythm, with constant criticism and complaints.

It's a mistake to use optimism or pressure to force somebody into accepting your goals. They can't run on your fuel or become what they're not, simply because you want them to or believe they can. They must have their own motivation or they'll drain you!

The key to recognizing the right relationships for your life is - listening! People know themselves better than you do, and they'll generally tell you who they are before you get involved with them.

But you've got to listen. If you fail to hear their self-assessments or their confessions because you're too busy giving them your positive-thinking, "Oh-no-that-can't-be-true" speech, you'll miss what you should be hearing. Listen to them - and to the Spirit of God that's within you - and you'll save yourself years and tears of secret disappointment.

Today's Prayer

Father In Heaven; Teach me to Listen to Your Guidance; Give me confidence to trust what "I" hear. I know that I am who I hang out with! So lead me to the "Right" relationships for me and Your plan. Direct me by Your Holy Spirit! In Jesus Name. ~Amen.

Walking, and praising and trusting my Lord for the rest of my life
LovebuginCT
527 posts

9/26/2009 4:36 am

    Quoting chosenson2:
    This makes a lot of sense. And if it's coupled with God's guidance concerning His choice for you, will save you a lot of unnecessary heartache.
I'm in total agreement with you! Thanks for stopping by.

Walking, and praising and trusting my Lord for the rest of my life

chosenson2
1116 posts 

9/15/2009 7:40 am

This makes a lot of sense. And if it's coupled with God's guidance concerning His choice for you, will save you a lot of unnecessary heartache.

LovebuginCT
527 posts

9/12/2009 8:00 am

Hi Sweetheart Maryanne, glad you enjoyed it!

Walking, and praising and trusting my Lord for the rest of my life

TimelessWhispers
6516 posts 

9/11/2009 5:03 pm

Hi Donna excellent post ~~!..loving it!


♥ Maryann ♥

He Who Kneels Before God Can Stand Before Anyone

+++++..... This Is Consuming My Life ....+++++

LovebuginCT
527 posts

9/11/2009 3:52 am

Glad you liked it! I get the daily devotional and when it's exceptional, I'll post it up here for all to benefit. Thanks for stopping by!

Walking, and praising and trusting my Lord for the rest of my life

LovebuginCT
527 posts

9/11/2009 3:51 am

    Quoting yendor2:
    I read this morning Donna and it really talked to me.. made me think about all relationships.. Lord give me ears to hear!...
It did me too, Rod. That's my prayer as well - help me to pay attention and not waste any more years!

Walking, and praising and trusting my Lord for the rest of my life

LovebuginCT
527 posts

9/11/2009 3:50 am

    Quoting longing4more:
    But you've got to listen. If you fail to hear their self-assessments or their confessions because you're too busy giving them your positive-thinking, "Oh-no-that-can't-be-true" speech, you'll miss what you should be hearing. Listen to them - and to the Spirit of God that's within you - and you'll save yourself years and tears of secret disappointment.

    Agreeing with your prayer. Not everyone is well yoked. Even two Christians can very easily be going different directions. What is grace to one is sin to another.
So true, Longing! This is the conclusion I've come to also. Whew - what wasted years and tears I've had!!!

Walking, and praising and trusting my Lord for the rest of my life

longing4more
3730 posts

9/10/2009 2:51 pm

But you've got to listen. If you fail to hear their self-assessments or their confessions because you're too busy giving them your positive-thinking, "Oh-no-that-can't-be-true" speech, you'll miss what you should be hearing. Listen to them - and to the Spirit of God that's within you - and you'll save yourself years and tears of secret disappointment.

Agreeing with your prayer. Not everyone is well yoked. Even two Christians can very easily be going different directions. What is grace to one is sin to another.

yendor2
8289 posts

9/10/2009 6:17 am

I read this morning Donna and it really talked to me.. made me think about all relationships.. Lord give me ears to hear!...

Banana and toothbrushes... Oh no not again... lol

Life is too short so Lighten Up a bit...

4gvnrn
986 posts 

9/10/2009 4:22 am

Great post!

Captured by HIS LOVE Kept by HIS GRACE

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