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Women 101
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I was playing around about putting up a blog on understanding women for the guys, that is until I ran into a couple of fellows at Bush Gardens the other day who SERIOUSLY needed help on how to make the first move on a woman. One guy flashed a card in his wallet and told me I had to move from where I was at. Course I didn't think about it, gathered my things and started to move. "Oh, I'm just kidding, got you there. hahahaha". AWKWARD!!!!! (yes, my claws were out).  Soooo, maybe you guys out there REALLY do need help. Ladies, help me out here and let them know a little something about us and how to make the move(don't tell all our secrets). Guys, don't be shy....ya'll can't let us in on a few things yourself. Like, what in the world do YOU want? Us to be assertive....mysterious....hard to get...*b**chy*.  Seriously, we really want to know.To Him be the glory. |
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6/18/2009 8:41 pm |
Good question..sometimes they themselves don't know what they wont They get confused easily..NOT TALKING ABOUT ANY GUY IN HERE.. They like an indepemdent woman,someone who can think for her self,make decisions on her own,pretty,SLIM,educated,witty,funny misterious,good cook,healthy..Ok think I said enuf here..  GodIsMovinfByHisSpirit
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6/18/2009 9:01 pm |
One thing that irks me no end are guys who, for example, eye-ball other women in social situations when you're out on a date with them...or even supposedly monogamous with them! I mean, I'd rather be doused with a bucket of ice-cold water than spend time with a dunce like that. It equally bugs me that some women stay with men who pull that stuff. C'mon ladies...where's the self esteem? To be fair, I'm sure men have similar beefs about the ladies. But I'm here to defend my cause, not theirs. And while on the subject, perhaps I owe thetobeornot an apology for my latest post...sorry guy, I was having fun with you, so please consider my lampoon the ultimate compliment!!  
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6/18/2009 9:37 pm |
One thing that irks me no end are guys who, for example, eye-ball other women in social situations when you're out on a date with them...or even supposedly monogamous with them! I mean, I'd rather be doused with a bucket of ice-cold water than spend time with a dunce like that. It equally bugs me that some women stay with men who pull that stuff. C'mon ladies...where's the self esteem? To be fair, I'm sure men have similar beefs about the ladies. But I'm here to defend my cause, not theirs. And while on the subject, perhaps I owe thetobeornot an apology for my latest post...sorry guy, I was having fun with you, so please consider my lampoon the ultimate compliment!! To Him be the glory.
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6/18/2009 9:39 pm |
Here is one (my dislike)...don't overwhelm us or make compliments that aren't straight from the heart. We know the difference. Be genuine and yourself. To Him be the glory.
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6/18/2009 10:52 pm |
OK..someone with integrity. Polite, places value on give-and-take. Willing to do things like treat a woman to a nice dinner while engaging in meaningful conversation. Someone even my parents and family could love because he's respectful and thoughtful. Romantic, articulate, honest. Fun with a good sense of humor. He should be stable and not needy or, dare I say, looking for a free ride. If I met a man with even 2/3rds of these attributes, I would have no trouble devoting my life to him. All in all, he must love the Lord.
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6/18/2009 11:24 pm |
Ahhhh...you named the most important thing. He could do or be everyone of the above mentioned but it doesn't matter if he is not a man after God's heart. If we aren't on the same page...no point in going further. To Him be the glory.
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6/19/2009 12:02 am |
Come to think of it, if he truly is a mature man of God, many of these very attributes should be a given, already existing and manifested in his character.
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6/19/2009 3:51 am |
Artie thinks you are absotively adorable! HE Isn't shy!  Christians are like Timex watches. We take a lickin', but We keep on tickin'! Steve 
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 6/19/2009 4:43 am |
LOL...I thought that this was going to be a post about men getting to know more about women/or whatwomen want??? but it seem to be about women getting all *b**chy about men... lol I guess I knew women better then I thought I did.. lol Banana and toothbrushes... Oh no not again... lol Life is too short so Lighten Up a bit...
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6/19/2009 4:50 am |
LOL...Wasn't this suppose to be a post about helping men to know more about women/or what women want??? but it seems to be more about women getting all *b**chy about men... lol I guess I knew women better then I thought I did.. lol ..just having some fun with you gals..... lol Banana and toothbrushes... Oh no not again... lol Life is too short so Lighten Up a bit...
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6/19/2009 7:56 am |
LOL...I thought that this was going to be a post about men getting to know more about women/or whatwomen want??? but it seem to be about women getting all *b**chy about men... lol I guess I knew women better then I thought I did.. lol To Him be the glory.
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6/19/2009 7:58 am |
Artie thinks you are absotively adorable! HE Isn't shy! To Him be the glory.
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6/19/2009 8:17 am |
Okay, so we got busted in bringing up traits of men instead of sticking to the topic. 1. Dont use pickup lines...that only works in a bar and if the woman has had a few too many. 2. Start off by saying that you would like to get to know more about her. 3. Ask if you could meet her for coffee. This shows that you are really interested in actually talking and takes the pressure off of both of the first date jitters. (some women expect dinner...but for those looking for sincerity, this will work) 4. Don't hesitate to ask (never hurts to try). You guys are in the driver's seat, we can't (and dont want to) ask you. Men sometimes miss out cause they think a certain woman won't go out with them when really she was waiting to be asked. Could use a little help here ladies. To Him be the glory.
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6/19/2009 8:49 am |
+)) It's not much of a discussion yet but let's look more closely at what is said so far... 1 I must be blindly focused on a casual date so my date thinks I'm a million percent serious about "a relationship"and about being less of a man and more of a slave to her "HE can't DO that to ME" idea. Why would I ever be THAT "DISHONEST" as to use my eyes for what they were created for? DO WOMEN IMAGINE ALL MEN WHO LOOK AT AND EVEN SIMPLY ADMIRE HOW A DIFFERENT WOMAN LOOKS --- MAKES US INTO BAD MEN? (why he's the DEVIL HISSELF!!!  ) Am I being told I MUST CONFORM to rules of etiquette that prove only that I can stare at ya and ONLY YOU and look like I'm off in a daze somewhere? WOE IS ME!!!!! The guy who wanted to have supper with ya CAN'T LOOK PAST YER eyes? Fine. YOU cut my steak and I'll just sit here and watch ya eyes and MAYBE yer hands. God help me if I should "accidentally" check out yer blouse and what might or might not be there...while I got ya fully focused on m'food. Fine though. "if thy right eye offends thee pluck it out..." Gimme yer fork- I don't wanna dirty up mine. Yeah I might be PERFECT FOR YOU- but then a DUNCE LIKE ME WHO EVEN GLANCES AT OTHER WOMEN- Hey- crucify us. Yer "self esteem" is a whole lot too inflated to be perfect for us who would rather be human and die like men than put up with failed perfectionism even on a first date. Soooooooo... I'm on my back- on the wood, arms outstretched... waiting for the nails. I'll even loan yas the hammer. God don't treat us like that- be damned if people should treat people that way either. THANK GOD I'M NOT BLIND!!! AND THANK GOD FOR BEAUTY OF EVERY SORT!!! And thank GOD for making me such a dunce! The preceding is a paid announcement. Not responsible for content. Offending right hand has already been removed. Addendum to "losing my faith"...
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6/19/2009 9:09 am |
just s ya nw ths s the resut f nt havng a rght hand anyre t use n the eybard ya hay nw are yas Addendum to "losing my faith"...
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6/19/2009 10:17 am |
P.S. If we're on "a date" and I catch you even glancing at another woman (or man )--- they better be worth craning my neck for- cuz if they caught YOUR eye- they must certainly be f-i-n-e indeed. Comes to mind something Jesus said- "forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us..." seems like almost everything we do is a trespass of some sort- So I guess that old 7X70 might just have a place in our "perfectionism"... just as Jesus said it might. Humble people can understand that others are worth forgiving too. IF we think they are "wrong" somehow. But hey- if yer staring at (or even looking at ) a movie star or something- I WILL LIKELY NOT FORGIVE YOU IF YOU DON'T POINT THEM OUT TO ME SO I CAN LOOK TOO. Autographs are born that way. =) =) =) ss fergt nt havng that rght hand anyre srry. Addendum to "losing my faith"...
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6/19/2009 10:32 am |
+)) It's not much of a discussion yet but let's look more closely at what is said so far... 1 I must be blindly focused on a casual date so my date thinks I'm a million percent serious about "a relationship"and about being less of a man and more of a slave to her "HE can't DO that to ME" idea. Why would I ever be THAT "DISHONEST" as to use my eyes for what they were created for? DO WOMEN IMAGINE ALL MEN WHO LOOK AT AND EVEN SIMPLY ADMIRE HOW A DIFFERENT WOMAN LOOKS --- MAKES US INTO BAD MEN? (why he's the DEVIL HISSELF!!! ) Am I being told I MUST CONFORM to rules of etiquette that prove only that I can stare at ya and ONLY YOU and look like I'm off in a daze somewhere? WOE IS ME!!!!! The guy who wanted to have supper with ya CAN'T LOOK PAST YER eyes? Fine. YOU cut my steak and I'll just sit here and watch ya eyes and MAYBE yer hands. God help me if I should "accidentally" check out yer blouse and what might or might not be there...while I got ya fully focused on m'food. Fine though. "if thy right eye offends thee pluck it out..." Gimme yer fork- I don't wanna dirty up mine. Yeah I might be PERFECT FOR YOU- but then a DUNCE LIKE ME WHO EVEN GLANCES AT OTHER WOMEN- Hey- crucify us. Yer "self esteem" is a whole lot too inflated to be perfect for us who would rather be human and die like men than put up with failed perfectionism even on a first date. Soooooooo... I'm on my back- on the wood, arms outstretched... waiting for the nails. I'll even loan yas the hammer. God don't treat us like that- be damned if people should treat people that way either. THANK GOD I'M NOT BLIND!!! AND THANK GOD FOR BEAUTY OF EVERY SORT!!! And thank GOD for making me such a dunce! The preceding is a paid announcement. Not responsible for content. Offending right hand has already been removed. That was too funny!!! Okay, I don't think she was talking about glancing or looking but rather LEERING. But I'm assuming, so here's my opinion:You correctly focused on a first CASUAL date...let's not get that serious so quickly.  Personally, I don't care if a man looks at another woman as long as he is not trying to get her phone number while out with me. To Him be the glory.
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6/19/2009 10:41 am |
just s ya nw ths s the resut f nt havng a rght hand anyre t use n the eybard ya hay nw are yas  Put yer eyeball back in and sew on the right hand. And STOP checking out the silhouette woman....I know she's HOT BUT DAMN, enough already! To Him be the glory.
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6/19/2009 3:37 pm |
Careful there G...at this rate you won't have no eyeballs or hands!!! Put yer eyeball back in and sew on the right hand. And STOP checking out the silhouette woman....I know she's HOT BUT DAMN, enough already! Most guys are macho men or something... me? I'm just the one who is easily impressed when ever He says I should be easy. OOOps. I mean when He says I should be easily impressed. He knows I'm always easy. Does that sound right...??? Hmmmmmmm... Something seems amiss here I think... "I ain't nobody's hero and I never make a stand. I can't find no courage till I'm hid within His hand. I know all what the good book says and that's alright by me but when it comes to women I prefer a bended knee. They seem like they'd be a blessing And maybe He knows best but I ain't nobody's hero- and I'd never pass their test. So if I stare at you girl don't pay me no never mind you ain't hearin that little prayer girl Just me thankin Him that I ain't blind. Nope I ain't nobody's hero yet And can't say I'll ever be- But if you think I'm starin- You can do the same to me. Golden rule. It applies all the time. Copyright June 19, 2009 Gordy505 (like anyone cares ) Addendum to "losing my faith"...
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6/19/2009 8:35 pm |
She may be the only one on BC that don't scare the livin doo doo outa me. Most guys are macho men or something... me? I'm just the one who is easily impressed when ever He says I should be easy. OOOps. I mean when He says I should be easily impressed. He knows I'm always easy. Does that sound right...??? Hmmmmmmm... Something seems amiss here I think... "I ain't nobody's hero and I never make a stand. I can't find no courage till I'm hid within His hand. I know all what the good book says and that's alright by me but when it comes to women I prefer a bended knee. They seem like they'd be a blessing And maybe He knows best but I ain't nobody's hero- and I'd never pass their test. So if I stare at you girl don't pay me no never mind you ain't hearin that little prayer girl Just me thankin Him that I ain't blind. Nope I ain't nobody's hero yet And can't say I'll ever be- But if you think I'm starin- You can do the same to me. Golden rule. It applies all the time. Copyright June 19, 2009 Gordy505 (like anyone cares ) You can become a hero REAL easy writing like that. Can I keep you...I won't be greedy, just do that about once a month. I'll even be a silouette lady so I won't scare you none. To Him be the glory.
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6/20/2009 5:44 am |
If I'm out and a guy comes over to me with the intent to get to know a little about me, I'm hoping to hear something sincere and kind - not some smart aleck comment. A guy does well with me if he's obviously interested (but not TOO eager) and a gentlemen and says at the end of our conversation that he's glad to have met me, and can we see each other again sometime, maybe grab a cup of coffee...that's not too scary. Walking, and praising and trusting my Lord for the rest of my life
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6/20/2009 8:43 am |
If I'm out and a guy comes over to me with the intent to get to know a little about me, I'm hoping to hear something sincere and kind - not some smart aleck comment. A guy does well with me if he's obviously interested (but not TOO eager) and a gentlemen and says at the end of our conversation that he's glad to have met me, and can we see each other again sometime, maybe grab a cup of coffee...that's not too scary. To Him be the glory.
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7/2/2009 1:52 pm |
"Hi, my name is________" is usually a great first line. I recently saw a preacher [ on Youtube ] encourage men to have the guts to ask girls out and not wait for the woman to make the first move/flirt. Be attentive on the first date. Give no more than a good night hug. So, guys, what should us ladies do??
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7/3/2009 4:10 pm |
"Hi, my name is________" is usually a great first line. I recently saw a preacher [ on Youtube ] encourage men to have the guts to ask girls out and not wait for the woman to make the first move/flirt. Be attentive on the first date. Give no more than a good night hug. So, guys, what should us ladies do??  To Him be the glory.
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7/5/2009 8:12 am |
Awww just never mind! Go get me some clay so I can make man in my own image LOL
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