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10/13/2008 3:38 am
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Well I can honestly say this isn't a meaningless post coz there is nothing meaningless about my best friend Lorraine!
We had our usual get together today and it was like walking into a sunny room! She does that to me! I keep thinking, Lord how blessed am I, that you gave me this awesome woman to be my best friend!
We just have a connection, you know? You get that with some people, just a something that kind of draws you together and it's like God just showers you with blessings through that friendship.
She is so like me, it's scary!! She's a total nutter, gets me into all kinds of trouble....and as you know, I am easily persuaded!!
Today we talked about anything and everything, as we always do. She's the only friend I have right now that I can talk God stuff with coz she is just as passionate about God as I am! I need that, I come alive when I talk about God...or when we unpack something we read in the Bible. We also share the same daily devotional so we often share about that. I just wish I could see her more often...we can only get together every second Monday coz I work and she is busy with stuff too.
She always helps me to put things into perspective. Especially now where my vision is kind of clouded over...she gives me stuff to chew over, and I often get revelations from God through our conversations. It's a definite God connection!
I guess I'm super blessed coz I have a large network of friends. It's like each one is different, yet they each have a little bit of me in them...yup scary huh!! Do you find that with your friendships too? I don't just mean girl to girl or guy to guy..sometimes it's girl to guy as well.
Well that's all I gotta say about that...as Forest Gump would say!! I'm feeling kind of mooshy and sentimental tonight
Penelope Captive of Hope
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4792 posts 10/13/2008 4:42 am |
A FRIENDSHIP TRUE IS LIKE PURE GOLD IT WON'T WEAR OUT AS IT GETS OLD....ONLY INCREASES IN VALUE Gods Blessings come in many ways Penelope.... glad to see you cheery again...xoxox
God's Angel  The truth,The Light,The Way  THE LORD PRESERVES ALL WHO LOVE HIM........psalm145-20........
ms_warriorthingy replies on 10/13/2008 4:19 pm: So true, Chrissy....friendship truly is like pure gold! Lorraine and I have been best friends for nearly 15 years..she is definitely a gift from God!  |
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187 posts 10/13/2008 5:16 am |
AAAAHHHH. I like your sweet, sentimental, heartwarming story.It shows the love and bond the two of you share. Thanks for your openness. I understand exactly where you are coming from. I can't discuss religion at all in my work place, where I spend the majority of my life working 10-12 hrs/4 days week. That would be considered inappropriate, and grounds to be fired, since respect for all religious differences must be strictly adhered to, of which I agree. No religious articles can be openly displayed on my desk, since it is still public domain. Thank God for the friends, family, and church family who share my enthusiasm for Christ!
Greater is He who is within me, than He who is within the world. 
ms_warriorthingy replies on 10/13/2008 4:24 pm: I've been banned from discussing God stuff too...though lately I've been flouting the rules a bit!! I do it in a sneaky way...I have my electronic Bible that I read in my breaks. You have no idea what a conversation piece it has become...a gateway to bigger things!! I also talk about different things in day to day life that God has done. I figure, if the others are allowed to talk about their husbands, surely I can talk about mine???  But oh how I agree with you...working in a secular environment is tough, and I long for my Christian friends! I think that is one of the reasons I love blogging so much...it's the Christian connection...being fed constantly!  |
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1818 posts 10/13/2008 5:22 am |
Pen, one of the greatest gifts God has given us is friendship; a bit of Him displayed in others. I love that phrase "when we unpack something we read in the Bible." I am so glad you are blessed with Lorraine. I have friends like that but they have either moved away or are back in NC. Or, as in the case of an old beau I could share with like that, just got married. That is one of the reasons I am looking forward to moving back to NC...I have friends there that have known me since I was 23; no matter the distance we have always stayed in touch and they have a knack for knowing just when I am needing some prayer or counsel. And I them...we always bounce major decisions off each other...oh boy, I so can't wait to get back there.
He is no fool if he should choose to lose the things he cannot keep to gain what he can never lose.....Jim Elliott
Deena  
ms_warriorthingy replies on 10/13/2008 4:30 pm: I feel for you, Deena....coz I would be lost without my girly hugs! Yes, friendship is such a beautiful gift from God, and when it's a Christian friendship....a little bit of Jesus mirrored in your friends eyes! I love it! Listen girl.......your heart is in NC....I think you need to take a giant leap of faith and "go for it"! Tell you what, let's both of us commit to praying for a clear word from God...and then we'll share what we hear?  |
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5463 posts 10/13/2008 6:48 am |
Amen Pen, true friendships grow
Gods way is my way,...Clay
ms_warriorthingy replies on 10/13/2008 4:32 pm: Yes they do, Clay! And true friendships weather every storm...then you know you are truly blessed!  |
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1073 posts 10/13/2008 7:50 am |
One thing I think most of us dont consider is If a man is really friends with a woman without all that sexual tension and vice versa a man will become more sensitive to a woman and understand woman better... And vice versa...Which is probably one of the top issues a woman has with a man...If a couple is confidant in their relationship togther...No man or woman will destroy that...Its okay to have men and woman for friends....Just dont cross that line where your being insentive to your better half...You can develop and have many friends of both genders...Its nice!...God Bless You....Quoting Forest.."I might be dumb, but I know what love is"...Run Forest run....GBY 
ms_warriorthingy replies on 10/13/2008 4:45 pm: Amen and Amen!!! You said it beautifully, B2! I would never want my "better half" to be uncomfortable if I had men friends...I think I would rather they became "our friends" and yes, there is a line that should never be crossed! You are one smart cookie!  |
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22250 posts 10/13/2008 8:01 am |
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True or FALSE ?
Without a personal and intimate relationship with God, how can you ever realize the true identity and person of God?
Continue to be faithful, deliverance is near, obedience must be seen, be an unconditional blessing as He continues to bless you.
This time is short, serve Him well, serving all.
Without exception.
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For me to live is Christ and to die is gain.
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ms_warriorthingy replies on 10/13/2008 4:46 pm: Mr Cat, I bet when you get together with your cat buddies, there's a whole lot of caterwauling going on!!!  |
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10462 posts 10/13/2008 8:45 am |
I have some of those around - but most live a distance away and are busy a lot so it's hard to schedule time. Your words reminded me of this quote "A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart." Blessings Pen!!
How can we NOT praise Him - Marilyn
ms_warriorthingy replies on 10/13/2008 4:56 pm: I love that quote, Marilyn! I have a few friends who live on the other side of town, known them since my early 20s. We only see each other on average once every two years or so...but when we get together it's like no time has passed in between..it's so precious! Last week I got some really sad news..one of the girls in this group died suddenly at age 48. I haven't mentioned it coz Lord knows my posts have been dismal enough...but it really rattled me, and brought home the awesome gift that friendship is. Love you my friend!  |
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828 posts 10/13/2008 8:47 am |
Isn't it great when we have those connections like that. I trust you had a super time and talked up a storm.
I love the car races. Over here its a Ford vs Chevy thing. I try not to get caught up in which is better as so much depends on the driver and the pit crews.
Have a super day and God bless you my sister.
ms_warriorthingy replies on 10/13/2008 4:59 pm: Those connections are the best, Dan! Talked up a storm? Are you kidding me? It's like Tornado Alley when we get together!!!  
I'm not totally into drag racing but I love the V8 supercar races. This one goes for like 8 hours and I don't watch the whole race but I love the last few laps!
You have a great day too, my friend!  |
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1818 posts 10/13/2008 5:51 pm |
Thanks Pen...I would so much appreciate your joining in prayer with me on that...for God to open the doors..bring the right job in just the right location at just the right time. I get overwhelmed looking at all that has to happen sometimes and then feel like giving up, but before I even met the fellow in NC God had been speaking the verse to me about "returning to the land of my relatives". I just really need to see God's hand in making the way clear and showing me exactly where I'm to go. Thanks so much my friend!
He is no fool if he should choose to lose the things he cannot keep to gain what he can never lose.....Jim Elliott
Deena  
ms_warriorthingy replies on 10/13/2008 6:51 pm: I think if you have had that word from God...if it has convicted you...then maybe you need to take that first step out of the boat? Well let's pray steadily and see what happens, huh! Love you!  |
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1818 posts 10/13/2008 5:53 pm |
Let me know specifically what you need prayer for as well. I know you are praying for vision and direction...but are there any things you are considering?
He is no fool if he should choose to lose the things he cannot keep to gain what he can never lose.....Jim Elliott
Deena  
ms_warriorthingy replies on 10/13/2008 7:00 pm: Thanks my friend...I've been on shitfting sand for so long now...I just want something solid to stand on! I want something I can depend on. As a friend pointed out, I am on this roller coaster ride....I want to try another ride now...but even the tunnel of love sounds scary...definitely not the dodgem cars or the carousel...LOL how about throwing balls into the clowns mouth????  I just want to be happy, Deena don't want to cry any more maybe that's a good start?  |
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1727 posts 10/14/2008 8:17 pm |
you said it Pen....they should become "our" friends. Great post love ya girl 
Keep walking in the Light and you won't fall down and bump your head. (paraphrase mine)
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1727 posts 10/14/2008 8:22 pm |
And I hope you're done crying. I know I am....you have no idea... But happy times ahead "eh"? Aint that what y'all say..."ey"? 
Keep walking in the Light and you won't fall down and bump your head. (paraphrase mine)
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1727 posts 10/14/2008 8:24 pm |
crud, i typoed it...."eh" i need to edit better ha
Keep walking in the Light and you won't fall down and bump your head. (paraphrase mine)
ms_warriorthingy replies on 10/16/2008 1:24 am: You did alright, Robin....you sounded like an Aussie!  |
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