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Knights and Fair Maidens, Help is Here, For your wooing woes!!!The Red Angel is here to help...
looking4mywings 4/7/2008 7:49 pm


Red aka Susan and I aka Angel ... Hey I wanted to have an aka too... Are starting the very first...Advice for help in finding your Knight or Maiden.

Looking for Your Knight in Shining Armor? Knights in Search of Your Lady? We are here to serve.

Two ladies ready with answers that will amaze you with their wisdom. Please, Do not ask where our secrets came from...We may never tell of our secrets...We will lose our power.

So ask away! One or both of us will have wisdom, to pour out on you.


Angel looking 4 her wings.. I will loosen myself from what has held me in the past, and from all the things that claw at my soul and threaten to pull it away from Gods purpose.

In Him, I need never worry.


God is God–be humbled.
God is good–be encouraged.
God is great–be thankful


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DarthVador
184 posts 

4/18/2008 10:49 am

Well, you girls are not the only one's who's having some slow times.
Ever since Frazzie turned me down my main pub has been the Lonely Hearts Club.

So, where does a guy like me find women who still prefer the 'bad boy types?' Here I thought that Frazzie would love me for who I am, but not so.


looking4mywings replies on 4/18/2008 12:34 pm:
Oh you poor thing, Have your not heard...You better get a make over...fast and in a hurry.....lol. We girls are all about, the good guys now....lol....sorry, Darth...the truth hurts...don't hang at the lonely hearts club to long...ok...get out and see the world...oh I guess being oh your are you have already done that ...ok then lets see, read the good book. That will make you,.more like a good boy. Even you ...can change...LOL GBU!!!

ReadingandRoses
6226 posts

4/16/2008 7:08 pm

Ya know Angel darlin', all good things must come to and end, and I think our little blog has wound itself down. Other than BB and his towing woes, we're woeless and wooless in Seattle and Purvis. (As she flips through TV channels in equal boredom.) I think I need a hot date like you! That'll perk me up and give me somthing to write about!! I'm going to get right on that. . . Yooohoooo Yooohoooo eligible bachelor dudes? Whhheerrrree are yooouuu???

Susan aka Red
God gives the very best to those who leave the choices to Him.
Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine...to Him be the glory. Eph 3:20


Find me at my screen name, blogspot and the usual ending. See ya there!


looking4mywings replies on 4/16/2008 7:17 pm:
Yes my dear child, I think you maybe right..HOT Date did I miss something...I don't know about you but I'm ready for the next chapter to begin...NOt rushing MY lord...but I feel the need for somethign new in my life...Oh the life of The Bore Red Angels...woe is me...GBU!!! Angel

BristerBate
4375 posts 

4/16/2008 2:51 pm

    Quoting ReadingandRoses:
    Yooo hoooo . . . BB??? Wheerrreee arreee yooouuu??? We're paddling across the "pond" as fast as we can. But Norway is soooo far . . . . Don't lose hope. We just spotted another fjord to head up - maybe we'll find you there.
Boo hoo, Red! Boo hoo!! They took 535 USD including the ticket, just to try to displease me, and I added $202 to get towed from that "nest" to the workshop. Repair will be added to this... next time I'll sure wreck it!


looking4mywings replies on 4/16/2008 7:03 pm:
Oh Red tell the truth we're lost and you want stop and as for directions.... Angel says, as she sits back, filing her nail,the one she broke paddling...across the pond...

I wasn't told there would be hard labor involved, when we started this post..and what has this, got to do with helping him find love...

Red you better put on more sun screen...Are is your face read from anger...Your the one that took us on this little trip... Yes i;m bored my dear..so sue me...GBU!!! Angel

ReadingandRoses
6226 posts

4/16/2008 2:12 pm

    Quoting BristerBate:
    Now, com'on angels... I'm already under my budget!!! Are you still on your way or do you lost direction???
Yooo hoooo . . . BB??? Wheerrreee arreee yooouuu??? We're paddling across the "pond" as fast as we can. But Norway is soooo far . . . . Don't lose hope. We just spotted another fjord to head up - maybe we'll find you there.

Susan aka Red
God gives the very best to those who leave the choices to Him.
Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine...to Him be the glory. Eph 3:20


Find me at my screen name, blogspot and the usual ending. See ya there!

BristerBate
4375 posts 

4/16/2008 2:07 pm

Now, com'on angels... I'm already under my budget!!! Are you still on your way or do you lost direction???

BristerBate
4375 posts 

4/14/2008 12:27 pm

Hey... don't let me wait too long!!! Strange... today they were all busy!!! LOL! Just looking out of my window until they'll surely remove it!! LOL! Maybe I should sleep in the car? so they tow me too???

Doing fine actually! Don't worry! Ooooh, how I love bureaucracy!!

ReadingandRoses
6226 posts

4/14/2008 11:22 am

    Quoting BristerBate:
    Well... can AAAngels tow a car ?? LOL! That's what I need right this moment!

    Hey, send one to me asap, will ya?

    BB

Aww BB! Winging our way to ya - sit tight!

Susan aka Red
God gives the very best to those who leave the choices to Him.
Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine...to Him be the glory. Eph 3:20


Find me at my screen name, blogspot and the usual ending. See ya there!

BristerBate
4375 posts 

4/14/2008 11:13 am

Well... can AAAngels tow a car ?? LOL! That's what I need right this moment!

Hey, send one to me asap, will ya?

BB


looking4mywings replies on 4/14/2008 6:34 pm:
Nope...lol But we know how to pick up the phone and call someone...Would that help... Angel

ReadingandRoses
6226 posts

4/14/2008 6:59 am

    Quoting Hisglory77:
    Red;
    I totally agree with you, especially about those who want only to be married, and don't care to whom. As I said before, I won't settle for simply 'a wife.' But someone who wants to become 'my wife.'
    I think I have done a poor job of articulating myself again.
    I was not referring to something that is isolated to me alone, and may have exagerated the question context to a greater perportion. Let's try a rephrase.

    Why is it that Christian women turn down almost all platonic friendship dates with nearly any and all potentual suiters, unless it is someone that they are more certain then not, that this could be someone they may want to marry someday?

    It's as though upon their first meeting some new man, if they don't receive an immedate revelation from God that this is their husband, or if he doesn't sweep them off their feet, then this can't possibley progress, and they are not interested.

    As I said, this is not just me, and while it has happened to me, I've seen it happen a lot more with other men.
    Also I've seen it more among Charismatic churches, then any place else.
    I believe it can be asking for a lot of trouble when one thinks they can use the Holy Spirit to tell them who their mate will be. And especially when it is THE ONLY source one uses.

    As for me, I think the absolute best method is a third party introduction. And especially so when it comes from your churches mature believers, deacons, elders, or clergy leadership. (whatever form your church uses)

    But however one meets another who they find attractive, we must be accountable, we must utilize the body of Christ, and listen to our spiritual leadership when considering a potentual mate.

    Thoughts of hiding such relationships, or aspects of it from our spiritual leaders is a big red flag to watch for. If we feel the need to hide our new love intrests, then something dreadful is wrong.
    That is when we need to run first and fast, and pray while we are running.
Hey Byron - I think you were clear in your question and comments. Thanks for further expounding. It is one of those dilemma's of dating, especially at this more "mature" age. I know I won't spend a lot of time with a man if I don't feel there is some aligning of interests, attraction and future goals. While friends are appreciated, I have a lot of those! So, if on a first meeting or date I realize I have little in common with a man and am not attracted to him, I will not continue to see him. If I do see things that interest me, then I will develop a friendship to "see where it may go." So I guess that means there is some "screening" through the "could he be a mate" filter. But nothing like waiting for voices from God. Just personal preference and mutual commonality. I don't assume each date is the One. And I have never had my feelings change with time - i.e. keep seeing someone I'm not initially drawn to. I've tried that route and it has never happened, so I've gone back to following my first instincts.

Hope that makes a little sense! It's just my perspective not saying it's the right one!


Susan aka Red
God gives the very best to those who leave the choices to Him.
Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine...to Him be the glory. Eph 3:20


Find me at my screen name, blogspot and the usual ending. See ya there!


looking4mywings replies on 4/14/2008 10:05 am:
Girl...your so right...My friends where calling me the one date wonder, at one time.. Because I would go out on a date and know that there was no need to go out again...They would joke when they knew I had a date...ok..whats the chances, this guy will make it to date #2.

But I know me and if there isn't something there, that makes me want to learn more, then there will not be a secont date. Has nothing to do wiht God..other than at this point in my life, if he isn't seeking God, then I don't see the need to go on a date at all.

That is one of the things God has lead me, to see has been missing, in past relationships...Men with a love for God..and no I'm not willing to take a chance, that he will find Him in the future..I need a man after Gods own heart, to share my life with..To share my love of God with.Its not just a want...It is a have to have.A need. GBU!!! Angel

Hisglory77
2904 posts 

4/13/2008 11:51 pm

    Quoting ReadingandRoses:
    Angel has said it well! Run from those women! Where are you finding them? Where are they finding you? While I don't advocate a lot of casual dating, I think men and women must, must, must be friends with a variety of potential "mates" and as friendships develop the process of one rising to the "top o' the heap" will occur naturally. I've had just as many men decide they want exclusivity from date #1. How and why would anyone want to do that? You don't know the person at all! After 2 or 3 months it's time to talk "let's see where this goes." But ladies (and guys) lets all ease back a little and let things develop. Remember the "spirit" isn't going to tell you something that he isn't telling the other person. Mary "pondered things in her heart". She let God talk to Joseph.
Red;
I totally agree with you, especially about those who want only to be married, and don't care to whom. As I said before, I won't settle for simply 'a wife.' But someone who wants to become 'my wife.'
I think I have done a poor job of articulating myself again.
I was not referring to something that is isolated to me alone, and may have exagerated the question context to a greater perportion. Let's try a rephrase.

Why is it that Christian women turn down almost all platonic friendship dates with nearly any and all potentual suiters, unless it is someone that they are more certain then not, that this could be someone they may want to marry someday?

It's as though upon their first meeting some new man, if they don't receive an immedate revelation from God that this is their husband, or if he doesn't sweep them off their feet, then this can't possibley progress, and they are not interested.

As I said, this is not just me, and while it has happened to me, I've seen it happen a lot more with other men.
Also I've seen it more among Charismatic churches, then any place else.
I believe it can be asking for a lot of trouble when one thinks they can use the Holy Spirit to tell them who their mate will be. And especially when it is THE ONLY source one uses.

As for me, I think the absolute best method is a third party introduction. And especially so when it comes from your churches mature believers, deacons, elders, or clergy leadership. (whatever form your church uses)

But however one meets another who they find attractive, we must be accountable, we must utilize the body of Christ, and listen to our spiritual leadership when considering a potentual mate.

Thoughts of hiding such relationships, or aspects of it from our spiritual leaders is a big red flag to watch for. If we feel the need to hide our new love intrests, then something dreadful is wrong.
That is when we need to run first and fast, and pray while we are running.

Isaiah 66:2b; But to this one I will look, To him who is humble and contrite of spirit, and who trembles at My word.

ReadingandRoses
6226 posts

4/13/2008 3:04 pm

    Quoting Hisglory77:
    Questions instead of comments. Okay Angels here's a question that will pick at your brains a while.

    Why is it that Christian women seem to think that before they date a Christian man, that they need to be almost engaged to him, or they want the man to show up for their first date with an engagement ring?

    Especially so with Charismatics. They seem to think that the spirit will tell them that this is the man God has planned for destiny.
    Talk about antici-pointment!!

    Where is the suspense, romance, spontaneousness, and surprises if you already know? And especially if both of the partners know?
Angel has said it well! Run from those women! Where are you finding them? Where are they finding you? While I don't advocate a lot of casual dating, I think men and women must, must, must be friends with a variety of potential "mates" and as friendships develop the process of one rising to the "top o' the heap" will occur naturally. I've had just as many men decide they want exclusivity from date #1. How and why would anyone want to do that? You don't know the person at all! After 2 or 3 months it's time to talk "let's see where this goes." But ladies (and guys) lets all ease back a little and let things develop. Remember the "spirit" isn't going to tell you something that he isn't telling the other person. Mary "pondered things in her heart". She let God talk to Joseph.

Susan aka Red
God gives the very best to those who leave the choices to Him.
Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine...to Him be the glory. Eph 3:20


Find me at my screen name, blogspot and the usual ending. See ya there!


looking4mywings replies on 4/13/2008 7:31 pm:
Well said, My Sweet..Where have you been?...GBU!!! Angel

Hisglory77
2904 posts 

4/13/2008 12:44 pm

Questions instead of comments. Okay Angels here's a question that will pick at your brains a while.

Why is it that Christian women seem to think that before they date a Christian man, that they need to be almost engaged to him, or they want the man to show up for their first date with an engagement ring?

Especially so with Charismatics. They seem to think that the spirit will tell them that this is the man God has planned for destiny.
Talk about antici-pointment!!

Where is the suspense, romance, spontaneousness, and surprises if you already know? And especially if both of the partners know?

Isaiah 66:2b; But to this one I will look, To him who is humble and contrite of spirit, and who trembles at My word.


looking4mywings replies on 4/13/2008 2:12 pm:
Well Byron, I'm wondering where you have been hanging out...I can't say I know of anyone like that. But can I say, I for one would give up, suspense, romance, spontaneousness, and surprises. To know that the guy was the right one, sent from God....for sure.

But one need not, give them up, just because one is sure that they have found the one, God has sent their way. I think it would give it all the more suspense, romance, spontaneousness, and surprise.

And hey maybe whats happening in your case is. That with your charm, you are just sweeping them of there feet and they just can't wait to get to the alter.......So Byron pull back on the raines if you find her rushing.

And she wants to get a ring before even dating ...maybe you need to getty up and ride in to the wild blue yonder...fast and in a hurry...This girl is just wanting to be married ...and any man will do. Sorry if this hurts the male ego. But sometimes the truth is you need to...RUN Byron RUN.GBU!!...The Red Angel

ReadingandRoses
6226 posts

4/13/2008 8:01 am

    Quoting Hisglory77:
    sonia;

    Listen to the angels on here. You got to take into account that we men are as dense as rocks when it comes to reading body language,inuendoes, flirtations, and dropping hints. It would be a fair assesement to say the same is true about using bling. So if you have an interest, be more direct, and just send me an E-mail to tell me so.
Dear Dense Rock,

I think Sonia's bling removes any doubts, even for someone who thinks they are thick as a post!! Now what was your question for us???


Susan aka Red
God gives the very best to those who leave the choices to Him.
Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine...to Him be the glory. Eph 3:20


Find me at my screen name, blogspot and the usual ending. See ya there!

ReadingandRoses
6226 posts

4/13/2008 7:58 am

    Quoting sonia1964:
    LOL, I am on a roll with this bling thing. Have you guys seen this one, no misunderstandings there!!


    I preferred the more subtle way!!

    I have made some too. They are free if you wanna tell someone they rock.
Now THAT should make your intentions very clear!!! I'll have to trot over to your blog and borrow a few bling for future use!!!

Susan aka Red
God gives the very best to those who leave the choices to Him.
Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine...to Him be the glory. Eph 3:20


Find me at my screen name, blogspot and the usual ending. See ya there!

ReadingandRoses
6226 posts

4/13/2008 7:57 am

    Quoting freedom2be2:
    Good answer Red Angel. Yes, claifying is a good way to put it. I think that it should apply to both the Maiden and the Knight as the relationship moves forward. He should demonstrate his wooing skills and talents with care and respect. If he doesn't, or is fearfull, or he doesn't take a position at this stage why should the maiden think he can or will woo,make decisions and lead later on. If he is paying attention to the Maidens responces as they learn more about each other he will notice her use clarifying comments as to where she is in the relationship and how and where she would like it to proceed to. No Maiden wants to invest to much time past a certain point with a Knight that turns into the mouse that roared. By the way a true Knight knows the wooing he does to have the Maidens heart beat faster with confidence and chose him is just the warmup....major league wooing that keeps a Maidens heart forever is something that he never stops!
No Mice that's for sure! I personally don't follow the lead of mice. While they're kind cute in their own beady eyed little way, about all they're good for is keeping the cats busy!

I agree with Angel Ed - you seem to have all the wooing moves pretty well figured out! Now Angel you must remember this is advice from the WOMANLY perspective Though our "guest authors" are very welcomed and their input is valuable. They can post, but alas, this half of the Red Angel feels we have too many excellent male visitors to choose who would be favored as our partner in crime, er, advice.


Susan aka Red
God gives the very best to those who leave the choices to Him.
Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine...to Him be the glory. Eph 3:20


Find me at my screen name, blogspot and the usual ending. See ya there!

sonia1964
1340 posts 

4/13/2008 7:50 am

LOL, I am on a roll with this bling thing. Have you guys seen this one, no misunderstandings there!!


I preferred the more subtle way!!

I have made some too. They are free if you wanna tell someone they rock.

On our way home
Quartzsite Arizona
Hi and bye
Going on a road trip
Thanks giving ideas


looking4mywings replies on 4/13/2008 12:17 pm:
Yes, Oh yes, I love this one...Wow If he doesn't get it from this. Girl, may I say he ain't going too.....GBU!!!Angel

freedom2be2
164 posts 

4/12/2008 9:32 pm

Good answer Red Angel. Yes, claifying is a good way to put it. I think that it should apply to both the Maiden and the Knight as the relationship moves forward. He should demonstrate his wooing skills and talents with care and respect. If he doesn't, or is fearfull, or he doesn't take a position at this stage why should the maiden think he can or will woo,make decisions and lead later on. If he is paying attention to the Maidens responces as they learn more about each other he will notice her use clarifying comments as to where she is in the relationship and how and where she would like it to proceed to. No Maiden wants to invest to much time past a certain point with a Knight that turns into the mouse that roared. By the way a true Knight knows the wooing he does to have the Maidens heart beat faster with confidence and chose him is just the warmup....major league wooing that keeps a Maidens heart forever is something that he never stops!


looking4mywings replies on 4/12/2008 11:23 pm:
WOO, WOO, WOO, Well Ed when you turn your wooing skills loss on a girl, she is going to be done for. I'm sure...Thank you for the feed back..I still say we need a man's in put here...GBU!!! Angel

Hisglory77
2904 posts 

4/12/2008 9:17 pm

    Quoting sonia1964:
    LOL, do you think this bling with give him an indication.


sonia;

Listen to the angels on here. You got to take into account that we men are as dense as rocks when it comes to reading body language,inuendoes, flirtations, and dropping hints. It would be a fair assesement to say the same is true about using bling. So if you have an interest, be more direct, and just send me an E-mail to tell me so.

Isaiah 66:2b; But to this one I will look, To him who is humble and contrite of spirit, and who trembles at My word.


looking4mywings replies on 4/12/2008 11:28 pm:
Hey Byron, What is up with this...You trying to outs us. And take our costumers. We are help this child...now yoiou give us a question...Mr...are else...Red wahts going to be our else... Are u running for the hills in fear yet...Byron...love ya. God bless you. Angel

sonia1964
1340 posts 

4/11/2008 7:16 pm

    Quoting ReadingandRoses:
    How did you guess? Ooooo . . . you're a clever one! I am EXACTLY between 3'4" and 6'7"!!!! I need to send you a hanky. BTW that whole "La donna italiana bella" line is pretty good too . . . But now I must refocus on my task at hand. Did you have any other burning questions we can assist with?
LOL, do you think this bling with give him an indication.



On our way home
Quartzsite Arizona
Hi and bye
Going on a road trip
Thanks giving ideas


looking4mywings replies on 4/12/2008 5:08 pm:
Yes I think It may...LOL GBU!!! Angel

ReadingandRoses
6226 posts

4/11/2008 5:11 pm

    Quoting Gordy505:
    Just a little fun- Red, but I tried to determine from this photo how tall you might be- I did several types of measureing excersizes and that last one was to get a ruler and try that one too.
    According to the reading- your handle here at BC could just as easily be "thumbalina" as it is "red".
    So out of further curiosity, barefoot- how tall are you actually? I know you are La donna italiana bella, but all that really means is you could be from 3'4 to 6'7 or taller. ( Or not ) gordy
How did you guess? Ooooo . . . you're a clever one! I am EXACTLY between 3'4" and 6'7"!!!! I need to send you a hanky. BTW that whole "La donna italiana bella" line is pretty good too . . . But now I must refocus on my task at hand. Did you have any other burning questions we can assist with?

Susan aka Red
God gives the very best to those who leave the choices to Him.
Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine...to Him be the glory. Eph 3:20


Find me at my screen name, blogspot and the usual ending. See ya there!

Gordy505
1695 posts 

4/11/2008 4:43 pm

Just a little fun- Red, but I tried to determine from this photo how tall you might be- I did several types of measureing excersizes and that last one was to get a ruler and try that one too.
According to the reading- your handle here at BC could just as easily be "thumbalina" as it is "red".
So out of further curiosity, barefoot- how tall are you actually? I know you are La donna italiana bella, but all that really means is you could be from 3'4 to 6'7 or taller. ( Or not ) gordy

Perfection... Possible? Yup... IF ya wanna TRY.

ReadingandRoses
6226 posts

4/11/2008 11:32 am

    Quoting StrGzr:
    Oh wise Red Angel... Why is it that so many women say they want to go slow, but fall for guys who move fast? What, oh what shall I do? I mean I want to be wise and a gentleman, but then lose out to guys who go straight into flowery speech and romantics?
Dear Slo-poke,
You have a BIG advantage right out of the gate because you are a Gazer at the Stars. Nothing says "romance" like viewing the heavens with a handsome gentleman.

While it is true that women speak of "slow" there is slow, and then there is molasses running uphill in the month of January. I would have to wonder if you may fall into the latter category? You can move quickly with words of friendship, amusing anecdotes, sincere but lighthearted compliments that assure your chosen Maiden that you find her appealing and would like to know more. Flowery romantics may last for a season, but eventually the heart will out. The Red in the Angel duo suggests you be a wee bit more bold in your wooing and see where that may lead. Do report back as we want to know if our amazing wisdom is bearing any fruit!


Susan aka Red
God gives the very best to those who leave the choices to Him.
Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine...to Him be the glory. Eph 3:20


Find me at my screen name, blogspot and the usual ending. See ya there!

Heiswithus
991 posts 

4/11/2008 11:13 am

Methinks these pretty maids dost seek the hand of some Royal rich and earthly prince. Angelic beings with wings or not.. methinks they dwell in Camelot. 'Tis too much for this Robin to believe that these young maids do not an earthly hand do seek. 'Tis true these maids methinks will admit--- that women are hard for us men to figure. Their makings Merlin tells me is so complex, there is no hope for us poor men. Ahhh such beauty gone to waste... life is such a complex case.

StrGzr
2088 posts

4/11/2008 10:46 am

Oh wise Red Angel... Why is it that so many women say they want to go slow, but fall for guys who move fast? What, oh what shall I do? I mean I want to be wise and a gentleman, but then lose out to guys who go straight into flowery speech and romantics?

"Seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness..." Matt 6:33.


looking4mywings replies on 4/11/2008 12:23 pm:
Hi Ken, Its a fine line. Call me once every blue moon and chances are, I'm going to be seeing others and that means there is a good chance, I'll start liking the guy thats calling and showing, that he wants to get to know more about me.

But On the other hand I don't want a guy that, falls all over me, from day one.

It takes time and lots of sharing. And after each talk or date if you find yourself wanting to know more...or if you can't wait till the next time you see or can talk to them. Hey somethings there.

Also you have to know, what your really ready for. Are you really ready for a relationship. If she is and your not, then thats a no go...Each person has to be in the same place, at about the same time. Ok hope this helps.

but more than anything be yourself...and do what you feel like doing? If you feel like calling, call. Thats the only way to fly....Be Ken. GBU!!! Angel

ReadingandRoses
6226 posts

4/11/2008 9:11 am

    Quoting Heiswithus:
    Arrrrrr these maids of great beauty doth consumeth much ill spent time. My arrow did not striketh either one. Alas.. I will not give up. Back to Merlin for yet another potion love bound bent and straighten out more arrows too! Such worthy maids of angelic descent yet human both to us pretend!
Ah Dear Man thou canst visit the fair maidens at will with your questions and concerns. But we must be immune to the blandishments of yon poet and rememberest that we are here for the masses that yearn for our great wisdom. How, O arrowless one, may we help you in your quest?

Susan aka Red
God gives the very best to those who leave the choices to Him.
Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine...to Him be the glory. Eph 3:20


Find me at my screen name, blogspot and the usual ending. See ya there!

Heiswithus
991 posts 

4/11/2008 8:23 am

Arrrrrr these maids of great beauty doth consumeth much ill spent time. My arrow did not striketh either one. Alas.. I will not give up. Back to Merlin for yet another potion love bound bent and straighten out more arrows too! Such worthy maids of angelic descent yet human both to us pretend!

ReadingandRoses
6226 posts

4/11/2008 7:25 am

    Quoting skystar13:
    This is what I had posted earlier as well on Sonias' blog:

    Well Sonia the way I see it is... if there is mutual attraction... communication is obviously the key to coming to a mutual understanding. It's getting on the same page and getting to that point- "breaking the ice" that can be so hard.

    Not sure I understand the deadly sin thing... but I am in agreement with most of what you say. When it comes to someone we like and are really attracted to it's always much more preferable for a Fair Maiden to want to follow the Knight's lead.

    Once the Fair Maiden and the Knight have decided that theirs is a true love the knight would accept a token of affection from his fair maiden to keep with him when they are apart.

    Back in the days of olde- the Fair Maiden would give the Knight a token of her affection. The Knight would take this with him into battle... usually a type of scarf or kerchief with her family crest and initials sewn into it by her own hand of course.

    Something similar to what soldiers still do to this day when off at war. These days it's usually in the form of a photograph or such that is kept with the soldier at all times.

    Both of course are simple tokens- kept as physical reminders for the fighting man to remind him of what he is fighting for. To give him hope and inspiration to survive his battles.

"A token to give him hope and inspriation to survive his battles!" I love that! Perhaps Sonia has a good thought - create a special "bling" and gift it as a sign of interest! Either that or start mailing out hankies to all the men you're interested in.

Susan aka Red
God gives the very best to those who leave the choices to Him.
Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine...to Him be the glory. Eph 3:20


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sonia1964
1340 posts 

4/11/2008 2:12 am

    Quoting ReadingandRoses:
    Oh yes - who was it that posted all those great pickup lines?? They were hysterical . . . I need to find that blog and pin it on this post. Yeah, I think that would be hint enough m'dear. I saw your comment about your son and the girls chasing him. That's the problem in a NUTSHELL! Women have turned into the huntresses, and guys have lost sight of their role. In the older generations (40 and upward) there is the stigma of Women's Lib in the picture that convinced men and women that we should all be the "same". Sorry, but love is not a game of equals. There is a pattern and roles to be honored for success . . . not that I've experienced it yet, but I know how it's supposed to work, after much failure! And now that I'm older and wiser, I'll only accept the best which will be of God's doing . . .
"love is not a game of equals. There is a pattern and roles to be honored for success . . . not that I've experienced it yet, but I know how it's supposed to work, after much failure! And now that I'm older and wiser, I'll only accept the best which will be of God's doing "

I could not put that better!

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looking4mywings replies on 4/11/2008 4:01 am:
Amen I'm with you on this girl. This is how I want to be... So in love with God, that the man that wants to win my heart, will have to seek Him to find me.GBU!!!Sweet Lady...

sonia1964
1340 posts 

4/10/2008 5:43 pm

    Quoting skystar13:
    This is what I had posted earlier as well on Sonias' blog:

    Well Sonia the way I see it is... if there is mutual attraction... communication is obviously the key to coming to a mutual understanding. It's getting on the same page and getting to that point- "breaking the ice" that can be so hard.

    Not sure I understand the deadly sin thing... but I am in agreement with most of what you say. When it comes to someone we like and are really attracted to it's always much more preferable for a Fair Maiden to want to follow the Knight's lead.

    Once the Fair Maiden and the Knight have decided that theirs is a true love the knight would accept a token of affection from his fair maiden to keep with him when they are apart.

    Back in the days of olde- the Fair Maiden would give the Knight a token of her affection. The Knight would take this with him into battle... usually a type of scarf or kerchief with her family crest and initials sewn into it by her own hand of course.

    Something similar to what soldiers still do to this day when off at war. These days it's usually in the form of a photograph or such that is kept with the soldier at all times.

    Both of course are simple tokens- kept as physical reminders for the fighting man to remind him of what he is fighting for. To give him hope and inspiration to survive his battles.

OK, SO DO I GIVE HIM BLING ON BC?

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looking4mywings replies on 4/11/2008 4:05 am:
Yes!! Bling will work...Bling, bling, or buzz, buzz,you buzz in his ear long enough.He'll wake up and smell the perfume...No the coffee...

skystar13
1210 posts 

4/10/2008 3:31 pm

This is what I had posted earlier as well on Sonias' blog:

Well Sonia the way I see it is... if there is mutual attraction... communication is obviously the key to coming to a mutual understanding. It's getting on the same page and getting to that point- "breaking the ice" that can be so hard.

Not sure I understand the deadly sin thing... but I am in agreement with most of what you say. When it comes to someone we like and are really attracted to it's always much more preferable for a Fair Maiden to want to follow the Knight's lead.

Once the Fair Maiden and the Knight have decided that theirs is a true love the knight would accept a token of affection from his fair maiden to keep with him when they are apart.

Back in the days of olde- the Fair Maiden would give the Knight a token of her affection. The Knight would take this with him into battle... usually a type of scarf or kerchief with her family crest and initials sewn into it by her own hand of course.

Something similar to what soldiers still do to this day when off at war. These days it's usually in the form of a photograph or such that is kept with the soldier at all times.

Both of course are simple tokens- kept as physical reminders for the fighting man to remind him of what he is fighting for. To give him hope and inspiration to survive his battles.


God's love reaches all- growing means thinking outside the box... love one another

ReadingandRoses
6226 posts

4/10/2008 9:44 am

    Quoting sonia1964:
    O dear Red flying maidens, I trust you can assist me in this very sensitive matter.

    I do not intend to pursue my Knight in Shining armour, but when do you know he is actually interested or just being friendly.
"Hi Sir Knight. I was just wondering, are you just being friendly or are you interested in getting better acquainted?" Straightforward, put it in your own words. Keep it light and short. Delicately probing is an art! It's not "pursuing" it's clarifing. Then, if he says "friends" let it be. If he says "interested" say "tell me a little more about yourself." And let him take the lead from there . . . Just a thought! Perhaps one of our "guest males" will weigh in on whether that is too direct or offer other options?

Susan aka Red
God gives the very best to those who leave the choices to Him.
Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine...to Him be the glory. Eph 3:20


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ReadingandRoses
6226 posts

4/10/2008 9:34 am

    Quoting sonia1964:
    Yea right, the kiss one....I wanted to use this as a pickup line and was advised not to by another angel.... Will you kiss me or do I have to lie to my diary....

    She suggested this one: You must be the reason for global warming because you’re hot.

    LOL, blog the 1st one and when the right one comes along use the second one. Do you think that will be hint enough?
Oh yes - who was it that posted all those great pickup lines?? They were hysterical . . . I need to find that blog and pin it on this post. Yeah, I think that would be hint enough m'dear. I saw your comment about your son and the girls chasing him. That's the problem in a NUTSHELL! Women have turned into the huntresses, and guys have lost sight of their role. In the older generations (40 and upward) there is the stigma of Women's Lib in the picture that convinced men and women that we should all be the "same". Sorry, but love is not a game of equals. There is a pattern and roles to be honored for success . . . not that I've experienced it yet, but I know how it's supposed to work, after much failure! And now that I'm older and wiser, I'll only accept the best which will be of God's doing . . .

Susan aka Red
God gives the very best to those who leave the choices to Him.
Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine...to Him be the glory. Eph 3:20


Find me at my screen name, blogspot and the usual ending. See ya there!

ReadingandRoses
6226 posts

4/10/2008 9:29 am

    Quoting freedom2be2:
    I don't have a question just yet but I am sure I will soon but if I may be so bold as to make a comment on finding "the one," which is what many are searching for in comming to BC. and to the Red Angels for advice from the female perspective. We all have the love of Christ for each other as brothers and sisters in Him. In relation to the one special person we are seeking, each one never knows if a person was "found" or "sent." An answer to your prayer or the another persons. Obviously there are different stages we go through in, "getting to know you, getting to know all about you," (Yes I borrowed those words from A fair Lady) the same apply's after and beyond. God said for everything there is a time, and a season, relationships are like that at all levels, even with "The One." Once when I was pursuing, a wise person noticed and gave me a poem that said would help at any time and at any level of a relationship. I heard it again on a PBS special that I was recently watching, thought it might be helpfull so I would like to share it:
    I wouldn't coax the plant if I were you.
    Such watchfull nuturing may do it harm.
    Let the soil rest from so much digging,
    And wait untill it's dry before you water it.
    The leafs inclined to find it's own direction.
    Give it a chance to seek the sunshine on it's own.
    Much growth is easily stunted by;
    To carefull proding or to eager tenderness.
    There are things we love that we must learn to leave alone.

    I guess I do have a question. How do you Red Angels interpet, and what do you think of these words?

    Alas I must go know my day horse is getting restless! My nite, ("knight") horse is resting.
Since you asked my opinion (and I so hate to give my opinion, being the shy retiring sort that I am) let me give you my overall impressions of the poem:

This is another way of saying "Let it go free and if it's yours it will return to you." And I agree, yet disagree. I don't find this poem particularly directive toward a budding relationship. If you let it "dry out" and don't give it any coaxing, water, show some eagerness . . . you wind up with Sonia's dilemma "Does he or doesn't he???"

What this poem says to me isn't romance related so much as "Don't try to run other people's lives" "Don't overwhelm them with good advice" "Don't be smothering."

I think if we leave the people we are interested in "alone" they will feel confused, uncertain and will move on to greener pastures.

So, the Red Angel advises balance, balance, balance. Be straightforward, bold and attentive to your chosen Maiden(s), but carefully watch her cues and don't overwhelm her. Move at her pace.

And ladies - be sure to verbalize those cues - Don't keep the poor guy(s) guessing!


Susan aka Red
God gives the very best to those who leave the choices to Him.
Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine...to Him be the glory. Eph 3:20


Find me at my screen name, blogspot and the usual ending. See ya there!

sonia1964
1340 posts 

4/10/2008 9:05 am

It would of course be if I had someone in mind, hmm, recalling that quizz, not such a good idea after all.

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looking4mywings replies on 4/10/2008 3:09 pm:
Hey wait one Cotton Picking minute...You telling me your here seeking advise and you have no one in your shites...Pleeeease. You better have some one in mind.... Coming here getting our hopes hope For what??? Ok I'm over it...next.

sonia1964
1340 posts 

4/10/2008 8:53 am

Yea right, the kiss one....I wanted to use this as a pickup line and was advised not to by another angel.... Will you kiss me or do I have to lie to my diary....

She suggested this one: You must be the reason for global warming because you’re hot.

LOL, blog the 1st one and when the right one comes along use the second one. Do you think that will be hint enough?

On our way home
Quartzsite Arizona
Hi and bye
Going on a road trip
Thanks giving ideas


looking4mywings replies on 4/10/2008 3:04 pm:
Well I'm thinking the other angel was right......But keep pondering and you'll come up with something that works.

yendor2
7181 posts

4/10/2008 8:02 am

    Quoting freedom2be2:
    I don't have a question just yet but I am sure I will soon but if I may be so bold as to make a comment on finding "the one," which is what many are searching for in comming to BC. and to the Red Angels for advice from the female perspective. We all have the love of Christ for each other as brothers and sisters in Him. In relation to the one special person we are seeking, each one never knows if a person was "found" or "sent." An answer to your prayer or the another persons. Obviously there are different stages we go through in, "getting to know you, getting to know all about you," (Yes I borrowed those words from A fair Lady) the same apply's after and beyond. God said for everything there is a time, and a season, relationships are like that at all levels, even with "The One." Once when I was pursuing, a wise person noticed and gave me a poem that said would help at any time and at any level of a relationship. I heard it again on a PBS special that I was recently watching, thought it might be helpfull so I would like to share it:
    I wouldn't coax the plant if I were you.
    Such watchfull nuturing may do it harm.
    Let the soil rest from so much digging,
    And wait untill it's dry before you water it.
    The leafs inclined to find it's own direction.
    Give it a chance to seek the sunshine on it's own.
    Much growth is easily stunted by;
    To carefull proding or to eager tenderness.
    There are things we love that we must learn to leave alone.

    I guess I do have a question. How do you Red Angels interpet, and what do you think of these words?

    Alas I must go know my day horse is getting restless! My nite, ("knight") horse is resting.
Man your good.. real good.. lol do you think there's a chance I dunk your head in the water there and hold down for about 10 minutes!... lol

..I'm just joking.. come on I'd never do anything like that!.. lol
(Yendor has that devilish look in his eyes has he moves his head slowly up and down)

Life is too short so Lighten Up a bit...


looking4mywings replies on 4/10/2008 3:01 pm:
Now Yender, oh great one...Don't go acting all crazy...lol the man Like yourself was just stating a point. We still love you and would offer to let you be our male counter part...But don't you already have droves of adoring fans...LOL...Lave Ya...GBU!!!! Angel

freedom2be2
164 posts 

4/10/2008 6:12 am

I don't have a question just yet but I am sure I will soon but if I may be so bold as to make a comment on finding "the one," which is what many are searching for in comming to BC. and to the Red Angels for advice from the female perspective. We all have the love of Christ for each other as brothers and sisters in Him. In relation to the one special person we are seeking, each one never knows if a person was "found" or "sent." An answer to your prayer or the another persons. Obviously there are different stages we go through in, "getting to know you, getting to know all about you," (Yes I borrowed those words from A fair Lady) the same apply's after and beyond. God said for everything there is a time, and a season, relationships are like that at all levels, even with "The One." Once when I was pursuing, a wise person noticed and gave me a poem that said would help at any time and at any level of a relationship. I heard it again on a PBS special that I was recently watching, thought it might be helpfull so I would like to share it:
I wouldn't coax the plant if I were you.
Such watchfull nuturing may do it harm.
Let the soil rest from so much digging,
And wait untill it's dry before you water it.
The leafs inclined to find it's own direction.
Give it a chance to seek the sunshine on it's own.
Much growth is easily stunted by;
To carefull proding or to eager tenderness.
There are things we love that we must learn to leave alone.

I guess I do have a question. How do you Red Angels interpet, and what do you think of these words?

Alas I must go know my day horse is getting restless! My nite, ("knight") horse is resting.


looking4mywings replies on 4/10/2008 7:33 am:
I say your good, very good...But then I knew that from day one of our first interaction. I also say Red clearly, We need a male perspective...Should we hold interviews...What do you say we do that from your blog...Interviews for the male perspective. Do you want to join wings with The Red Angel....lol...let me know. ED!! You want to apply, your top of the line...so for..in my book anyway...you will have to talk to Red, as to where you are in hers...GBU!!!

danoddb
827 posts 

4/10/2008 5:08 am

Unfortunately my ride didn't show. But it was a good evening still. I hope you have a great day and God bless.


looking4mywings replies on 4/10/2008 5:57 am:
Oh I'm so sorry...Well I know far a fact that we can be in Gods presents with out going any where at all. i will pray for God to bring you a way that will get you out to bible study in the future...I'm sure teh company of others would have be great...God Bless you my Sweet heart...Angel...P.S. Secret...Don't tell any one. But I didn't get to walk yesterday..Do you think I could double up today...

sonia1964
1340 posts 

4/10/2008 12:12 am

O dear Red flying maidens, I trust you can assist me in this very sensitive matter.

I do not intend to pursue my Knight in Shining armour, but when do you know he is actually interested or just being friendly.

On our way home
Quartzsite Arizona
Hi and bye
Going on a road trip
Thanks giving ideas


looking4mywings replies on 4/10/2008 5:52 am:
well My