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9/4/2008 1:42 pm |
This has crossed my mind before. I've been doing what I want to do without question for a long time now. I started a business..went on vacations,,do what I want when I want. I have my own routine...If and when I marry again, will I want to compromise that? Well....when you are in love with someone, there's no thought of it. You do what you think makes the other happy. It's not being put out of your way. Its how lives mesh. If it doesn't come that easily, then ya oughta take a second look at your true feelings
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9/4/2008 5:02 pm |
yes but after the wedding, after the honeymoon period it would be easy at some point to be selfish again.
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 9/4/2008 9:07 pm |
I have been so broken in the past that I have been able to rely on no one but myself, even to the detriment of my relationship with the Father. Independance can lead you away from being dependant on the Lord. This is an area in which the Lord has been dealing with me for a while now. My ex husband stole money and was disceitful,and was a very selfish man. My trust in men plumitted and I thought that they were all the same. Slowly, little by little the Lord has been taking me through a time of deep healing, and is changing my thought patterns in many ways. I have met my Beloved, and we will be married next year. Each time we go out, he pays! When something needs to be done, he does it! When I am negative about myself, he tells me how much he loves me! I could go on and on. The thing I am illustrating is that it is totally foriegn to me. He has my utmost as his priority, and his love for me is very overwhelming, yet beautiful at the same time. The Lord is changing me to trust in my Beloved now before the wedding so Godly submission will occur throughout our marriage. I now know that if the man really does love his wife (or wife to be in my case)like the scriptures tell us, the wife will respect him and honour him and trust is then not an issue. What glorious revelations I am having of late. How the Lord is healing me and restoring my soul. I am so proud of my Beloved for standing by me and wiping my tears away as the Lord brings me through. It has bought me much closer to the Lord, I am walking a very path now as I see my Heavenly Father as a Daddy, not a punisher. It has also bought me closer together with my beloved, a love that I have not experienced before now. God has been preparing me for this man, a long time. By the time we are married, I belive that most if not all of those issues of wrong thought patterns from an abused mind will be dealt with, so I don't think I will have too much trouble with compromising etc. The body of Christ is like a patchwork quilt! All stitched together with God's love.
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9/5/2008 6:40 am |
I am very very happy for u Lou 
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9/5/2008 3:37 pm |
yes but after the wedding, after the honeymoon period it would be easy at some point to be selfish again.
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